by Judy Handley | Oct 29, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 302: Noon at Noonan, Trip to Hyannis, Chores at Home
Date: Thursday, October 29, 2026
Weather: Yet Another Beautiful Fall Day; High Temp 64, Low 53 degrees F
Location: At Home with My Shadow, Falmouth MA
Last week was windy, windy, but this week, we have been so lucky to have such beautiful weather for the daily standout at Peg Noonan Park. Tomorrow is the last day of early voting, so it will be the last day of Noon at Noonan. When the clock struck 1 pm today, we closed up shop and I then headed to Hyannis. When I called Lens Crafters this morning to say it had been more than 20 days and was only supposed to be 10 days to pick up the new glasses, they said they emailed me. Somehow, I missed that email, but now I have them. When I got home, I took Shadow outside and I started the process of ‘winterizing by disconnecting all of the outside water hoses. I waited until it was very chilly last year and learned that coiling hoses in cold weather is no fun at all. So, I plan to get it done this year while it is still warm. I then ended my day making signs for last day of early voting. It was not an exciting day, but I got things done while enjoying this wonderful weather.
by Judy Handley | Oct 28, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 301: Heartbreaker
Date: Wednesday, October 28, 2026
Weather: Another Beautiful Fall Day; High Temp 57 Low 40 degrees F
Location: At Home with My Shadow, Falmouth MA
The last regular season game for the Falmouth High School boys’ soccer team was played tonight on Martha’s Vineyard. And it was a heartbreaker. Jed, Ollie, and I took the 3:45 ferry over to the island and arrived right on time for the 5 pm game. After Monday night’s game, much of the team bleached their hair white, so the first adjustment was to figure out who was who. The team members look quite different as “bleached blondes.” Both teams came on the field determined to win. Martha’s Vineyard made the first goal. Falmouth came back in the second half to make it 1-1. You could see that they were putting their hearts and souls into this game, but their determination was matched by the MV players. In the last few minutes, Martha’s Vineyard scored again. Falmouth tried to come back, but they simply ran out of time. The Clippers will still be in the state finals, and hopefully I won’t have to watch another game as heartbreaking as this one.
So that was the end of my day. Going back to the beginning, I was on an Indivisible Falmouth Steering Committee Zoom meeting early. All Indivisible groups on the Cape are trying to prepare for what actions we will take in response to any election issues next week. It is truly difficult to plan for a rapid response when you don’t know what it will be in response to or when it will happen. But that is the state of play right now. Nevertheless, the Zoom meeting ended about 15 minutes early, giving me just enough time to drive to my old neighborhood in East Falmouth on the Eel River to say hello to my former neighbor and friend, Andrew Dearman. He contacted me earlier to let me know he was in town, but this was my only chance to see him. I visited with him longer than I should have, making me a bit late for Noon at Noonan. But I texted Mo Lewis, who I knew was coming today, and she held down the fort until I got there. Again, the weather was beautiful and afterwards I headed home to play outside with Shadow before heading to Woods Hole with Ollie and Jed for the trip to Martha’s Vineyard.
by Judy Handley | Oct 27, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 300 (65 days left in 2026): Meeting Grace Ge Gabriel
Date: Tuesday, October 27, 2026
Weather: Beautiful Day, but Cooler; High Temp 55, Low 34 degrees F
Location: At Home with My Shadow, Falmouth MA
It never ceases to amaze me how you can meet the most interesting people in the most common places. For instance, who would think you would meet the woman who founded the China office of the International Fund of Animal Welfare (IFAW) at a reception at your sister’s memory care facility? Well, I did this afternoon. Grace Ge Gabiel was a Chinese-born American news editor who went undercover in Shanghai to buy wild animal body parts and emerged to found the IFAW. It was meeting one particular elephant that changed her life path from journalist to animal rights activist. At some point, Grace brought her mother to this country to live with her, but when Grace’s husband died five years ago and her mother began to show signs of dementia, her life changed again. While working her way through this new phase of her life, she decided to grieve by writing a book. Blood Ivory will be available in January, published by Simon and Schuster. It tells of her fight to save the world’s most endangered animals.
So how did I meet Grace today? After visiting with my sister Patsy at Bridges afternoon, I went to the community room to attend a reception introducing the new executive director of Bridges. I didn’t see anyone I knew, so I walked over to the table laden with gorgeously presented appetizers and a woman walked over and introduced herself to me. It was Grace. It was when she told me she had worked with Jane Goodall that I became totally enthralled. About 45 minutes later we stopped talking just long enough to toast the new director. We parted by sharing contact information and with a promise to meet again.
I love it when special things happen on special days. If Mark were still living, today would have been our 52nd wedding anniversary. Meeting Grace inspired me to think of all of the wonderful encounters Mark and I had with various animals on our sail around the world, both on land and in the water. Meeting Princess, the orphaned orangutan who was raised by Dr. Birute Galdikas at Camp Leaky on the island of Borneo was definitely the highlight. As was watching a pair of Galapagos tortoises mate and anchoring next to a colony of Galapagos penguins.. And then there was the close encounter with a hippo in Kruger National Park in South Africa. The afternoon we hovered over an octopus showing off his changing colors in Madagascar was so special. As was the day I met my first clown anemonefish in the Komodo islands in Indonesia. And in honor of Grace’s love of elephants, the baby elephants in Kruger. I could go on all evening, as these are just a few of the breathtaking encounters with animals around the world. Thinking about these things were my gift to myself on this anniversary evening. What a wonderful world of nature!
by Judy Handley | Oct 26, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 299: Back in Falmouth for Jonah’s Senior Soccer Night
Date: Monday, October 26, 2026
Weather: Beautiful Day; High Temp 61, Low 46 degrees F
Location: Back Home on Lakeview Ave with My Shadow, Falmouth MA
The alarm went off at 5 am and Heather, Sam, and I were all in high gear. We had one hour to get Sam’s car packed with the multiple bags of food and supplies that he needs to move to where he is staying this week. While he showered, Heather and I got the car packed. I fixed a quick breakfast to go for Sam and by 6 am he was off to work and then on to his new home for this week. By 6:30 am, Heather and I had double checked all of the directions for turning things off when leaving the cabin and my car was packed and on the road. Goodbye lovely cabin in rural Vermont!
We made only one stop on the way home for gas and I decided to make that stop in Plymouth, New Hampshire. Plymouth State University is a school that has the 5-year athletic training program Jonah is interested in, and none of us has ever been in Plymouth. As long as we were right there, I thought a quick drive through town and around the campus, a stop for gas and a Dunkin’ coffee was in order. It only took an extra 15 minutes and that got us home just in time for me to arrive at Noon at Noonan right at 11:30. I usually arrive at 11:20 to set up, but at least I was there for the start time. We talked to lots of people about voting early and then I came home to have lunch. The early morning get up got to me after lunch, so instead of doing something productive, I crashed and napped for an hour. I almost never nap mid-day, but it was worth it, as I felt great when I got up.
Before I knew it, it was time to get ready to go to Jonah’s Senior Soccer Night. Before the game, each graduating senior player walked was announced and walked onto the field with family. Photos were taken and then the game began. Before we went out onto the field, I was able to get a few photos, including a photo of Jonah, Kaiden, and Jean-Luc, Jonah’s tightest circle of friends, with their proud ‘soccer’ moms.
We were playing Yarmouth-Dennis. It was a fast-paced, exciting game to watch. Unfortunately, tonight is Falmouth fall Town Meeting and Heather and Jed were both supposed to be there. Jed and Ollie opted to stay for the entire game, with Jed going to Town Meeting late. But as Select Board Chair, Heather had to leave after 20 minutes of play. She missed seeing Jonah play one of the best games I have seen him play. And he made a beautiful goal late enough in the second half that cinched the win, making the score 2-0. The final was 3-0 and the entire team came off the field all smiles. There was an after-game party with pizza and cake, family members and players mixing and mingling, while the team goalie played music on his boombox. The goalie this fall is a ninth grader that played soccer with Ollie the past couple of years. He is young to be on the varsity team, but he is good. Each of the players was given a huge basket of snacks and bags of candy provided by the 11th grade players on the team. Everyone was having so much fun that no one wanted to leave. I finally snuck out to take Jed to Town Meeting and left Ollie out on the field playing soccer with friends. Jonah’s friend Kaiden was going to bring him home. By the time I got back to pick up Ollie, everyone was gone, but it was a fun and successful evening for the Falmouth varsity soccer team. The last game of the regular season is Wednesday on Martha’s Vineyard. Heather is in Boston for a conference, but Jed, Ollie, and I decided tonight that we will hop on the ferry for the 5 pm game. The win tonight probably assures that Falmouth will be in the playoffs, at least that is what we are hoping.
by Judy Handley | Oct 24, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 297: Falmouth to Rural Vermont
Date: Saturday, October 24, 2026
Weather: Sunny, Finally No Wind; High Temp 58, Low 30 degrees F
Location: Visiting Sam om Beach Hill Road in Glover, VT
Heather and I arrived in what feels like the middle of nowhere around 7:30 tonight, but it was great to see Sam’s smiling face. It was a gorgeous afternoon for driving north, but it is a long trip to Glover, Vermont from Falmouth!
This morning, after making arrangements for Shadow’s care while I am gone, making arrangements for someone to take my place for Noon at Noonan tomorrow, and getting everything packed and ready to Vermont, I headed to Main Street for Noon at Noonan. As soon as that ended at 1 pm, I rushed home, packed the car and headed north. I met Heather and Jed in Wareham as they had been up that way for Jonah’s soccer game. We got Heather’s bags transferred to my car and we were off for Vermont. My car was completely full of bags. It looked like we were going to be traveling for weeks. Because Sam is staying in a cabin that he will not be returning to when he heads to work at 6 am on Monday, all laundry has to be done by Sunday night. The cabin has no washer and dryer, so we will have to find a laundromat on Sunday. But we took sleeping bags, pillows, and bedding for both of us so that when we leave on Monday morning, the cabin will be all set. It belongs to some friends of Heather’s, so we need to leave it as it was when Sam moved in a week ago. On Monday after work, he will be moving into another friend’s Airbnb for the week, but at the end of that stay, he will pay the cleaning fee so it will be ready for the next occupants. He is then basically couch surfing and living out of his car the following week or so until his rental for the winter is ready. All of this moving around is necessary as there was just no one place he could find to rent at a price anywhere affordable until the second week of November.
So where in the world is Beach Hill Road in Glover, Vermont? From Falmouth, you head directly north to New Hamphsire and keep driving north on I93, curing to the northwest after Littleton, NH, and on to the end of 93 in St. Johnsbury, VT, and then further north on I91 to an exit for Glover and Barton. Then we got on a narrow dirt road for the climb to the top of Beach Hill Road. So, here we are about 25 miles from the Canadian border. I’ll have to let you know tomorrow what it looks like here as we drove in the dark after Littleton, NH. But the drive was worth it just to be able to see Sam and hear all about his new job for the winter. Snowmaking sounds like it is going to be hard, physical work, but the lure is that four days of hard work for pay results in three days off to snowboard for free. His job is at the Stowe Mountain Resort, owned by Vale Resorts. And so far, he is loving it. This cabin is 45 minutes northeast of Stowe, so early morning s and lots of driving this week. Next week’s Airbnb is closer and then his permanent rental is less than 20 minutes from the mountain. Since his shift will be 12 noon to midnight, I am so thankful that he will be closer once the weather gets wintry.
I will end with a message of thanks to Jed, Ollie, and my neighbor Andy who are taking care of my Shadow and to my Indivisible Falmouth friends for filling in at Noon at Noonan for me on Thank you for giving me this special time with Heather and Sam.
by Judy Handley | Oct 23, 2026 | 2026 Life Logs |
2026 Life Logs, Day 296: Change of Plans
Date: Friday, October 23, 2026
Weather: Sunny and Windy; High Temp 58, Low 44 degrees F
Location: At Home with My Shadow, Falmouth, MA
I had no specific plans for the upcoming weekend other than Noon at Noonan each day to remind people to vote. But after I got home from Noon at Noonan today, I got a text from Heather saying she was headed to Vermont this weekend to visit with Sam and I decided to go with her. Sam has their second car and Jed needs a car here, so she was going to rent a car to drive to Vermont. Why should she do that when I could go with her and drive my car? So, we put that plan in motion. I wanted to make lasagna for us to have for dinner while visiting Sam. That way he would have leftovers to pack for lunches next week. Sam had also asked his mom if she could bring more of Oma’s granola clusters that I sent with him last week. I made a quick trip to the grocery store and started the lasagna and the granola clusters. But if I was going to be gone until Monday, I needed to go visit my sister this afternoon. I had planned to go tomorrow and change her Dexcom glucose sensor as the new shipment was due to arrive this afternoon. When it had not arrived by 3:30 pm, I decided to put the lasagna on hold and go and disconnect her current sensor. I will replace it on Monday when I return. Her blood glucose numbers have been the same for about two weeks now, so daily monitoring is not as crucial right now. But I knew I would have to go het her phone and bring it home for the weekend for fear that it would alarm all weekend once the current sensor expires around 2 pm tomorrow. Everyone will be happier if I just disconnect her for a few days. I had a nice visit with Patsy, disconnected the sensor, and then returned home to continue getting ready for the impromptu trip to Vermont.
Heather had invited me over for dinner, so I finished making the lasagna sauce and took it and the noodles that I had already boiled. Heather could make the bechamel sauce while the meat sauce was simmering, and we could assemble it after dinner. We did that and then I returned home to bake the lasagna and make granola clusters. My kitchen is a bit of a mess, but food is ready to go!
