2017 Life Logs, Day 284: Good News from Justin
Date: Wednesday, October 11, 2017
Weather: Partly Cloudy; High 69, Low 52 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Studio, Falmouth, MA
My morning was listening to an online summit about best ways to deal with osteoarthritis. I seem to know someone very well who suffers from knee pain due to this. And yes, that person would be me. I didn’t learn a lot of new information, but I was reminded sternly that not drinking enough water can exacerbate the pain. So, I once again have that water bottle by my side. In the middle of one of the sessions, I got a call from Justin. He had been standing in line for two hours to try to once again to get the cash I sent to him on Saturday via Western Union. When he finally got to the head of the line, they couldn’t give him the money because I had not included his middle name when I sent the money. The name has to match what is written on your government issued ID. The person who met with gave him a number I could call to fix the problem, and because he was in town, he had a cell signal so he could call me. I called the number and I was able to add his middle name without too much fanfare. But by the time I sent Justin a text to let him know the name was changed, the people manning the Western Union window had gone to lunch. While he was once again waiting, he saw that people were getting money out of a nearby ATM machine. He gave it a try and was actually able to get money out of his account for the first time since the hurricane. Very good news. And then he was successful in getting the cash that had been sent through Western Union. So, I can breathe a little easier now knowing that at least Justin and Jo have cash . . . and hopefully continued access to their bank account. But that could come and go, so they can’t ‘bank’ on it. At least in terms of the ability to get cash and to communicate, there has been some improvement. Unfortunately, that has not been the case for food and water, at least not in western Puerto Rico where Justin lives.
There was a little bit of unsettling news from Justin, along with the good. Coco was not feeling good today. Justin said he had a bug of some sort a couple of days ago and Coco seems to have the same symptoms. Justin thinks it is just a result of eating too many carbs—just rice and beans and more rice and beans. He thinks their bodies are just telling them they need something green. But there is nothing green to eat right now. So hopefully he’s right and hopefully those sprouting seeds and trays will arrive soon. And hopefully our Coco Belle will feel better by tomorrow. But I don’t have my head buried in the sand. I know that the Governor of Puerto Rico today said that the first deaths have been reported from the water borne disease called leptospirosis. It is treatable if you have the right antibiotics, but people have no easy access to antibiotics. The deaths so far are close to San Juan, not in western Puerto Rico where Justin and Jo live. And J & J did receive the water filters they ordered before the storm. So hopefully their water is safe. I have sent hundreds of water purification tablets for others, but those have not yet arrived. It was three weeks ago today that Maria ravaged the island of Puerto Rico. I knew that if the hurricane hit hard, the entire island would be without electricity and cell service, but I guess I really didn’t believe that an entire island would be left without any source of fresh water. And even if they were, I naively thought that our government would find immediate ways to air drop water bottles to the people. But that hasn’t happened. Our government is still traveling around asking people to fill out forms to get relief. And I am still having a hard time believing this even though I know it to be true. Where is the government of the country I thought I lived in? There are good people down there ready to deliver food and water, but somehow the leadership is not allowing that to happen. Mail has not reached Justin yet, but so many things have been sent through the generosity of so many friends and family members with more on the way. So even if the government support system is broken, the goodness of the people of this country shines through. Thank you so much to everyone making contributions.
I’m headed to Concord, New Hampshire, tomorrow to attend a Concord Yacht Club meeting. And then on Friday I head to the coast of New Hampshire to visit with other good friends. I need some input from others to help me figure out how to prioritize what we are sending to Puerto Rico. This trip will give me time with friends who can help me with this task. Sitting here at my dining room table without input from others is leading to dysfunction. So I am really looking forward to brainstorming with friends.
I invited myself to dinner at the Goldstones tonight so I could see Heather, Jed, and boys before heading to New Hampshire for four days. And then I went to see Victoria and Abdul with Terry and Olivia White. The movie is about the unlikely relationship between Queen Victoria and a young clerk from India who is sent to England to deliver a ceremonial coin to the Queen. It is a cross between comedy and drama and Dame Judith Olivia ‘Judi’ Dent is as spectacular as ever. And Ali Fazal, the young Indian actor, quickly becomes a favorite. The movie certainly spurred me to learn more about the life of Queen Victoria.
2017 Life Logs, Day 276: How to Help
Date: Tuesday, October 3, 2017
Weather: Still Cool and Sunny; High 66, Low 50 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Studio, Falmouth, MA
I spent a fair amount of time today watching the television coverage of the aftermath of the mass shooting in Las Vegas and President Trump’s visit to Puerto Rico. From what I saw, the Las Vegas community is coming together with grace and dignity to deal with the catastrophic event in their town. The first responders did everything possible to save lives, the people attending the concert did everything possible to help each other, the law enforcement was in action immediately, the medical community went into overdrive to try to save lives, and the powers that be and the businesses and citizens of the town are supporting the hundreds and hundreds of people affected by this—the family and friends of those murdered, those who were injured and their family and friends, and the people of Las Vegas who are living through this horror. This is the way Americans respond. But what I saw reported from Puerto Rico today was very different. Neighbors have been working non-stop to help neighbors and businesses that have the resources are doing what they can to help in their communities, but our President made no mention of this. In fact, he really didn’t acknowledge the devastation to the people of Puerto Rico. The powers that be are still boasting about what a wonderful job is being done there without evidence to back that up. There is no doubt that the people who have been sent there to help are good people who are doing the best they can. And I believe General Buchanan will do the best he can with the limited number of people and resources that have been deployed. But there are not enough people or machinery to do the job and the needed leadership was delayed in arriving. Things are steadily improving in San Juan where all the help and supplies are arriving, but it is the rest of the island that is in such dire need. Once again, I find myself feeling shame for the way our President conducted himself in San Juan today. When others are hurting so desperately, you do not go in announce what a great job your people have done to save them without acknowledging the incredible job they have done in saving each other. And you don’t remind them that their problem is causing you a great financial burden. Shameful is once again the only word I can find to describe Donald Trump’s speech and actions in dealing with Puerto Rico. I can only hope he does better in Las Vegas tomorrow.
Despite my disappointment in the way things continue to move so slowly in Puerto Rico, I’m still focused like a laser on doing what I can to help. The title of this log, How to Help, should have a series of question marks after it . . . and I don’t have the answer. The packages we have sent via the US Postal Service are still delayed in transit according the USPS tracking site. And until those packages arrive, Justin and Jo have no source of money. Their bank is still closed. So hopefully they have enough gas to continue to drive to town to check on the mail. I read on a Rincon Facebook page that the Red Cross did make it to town yesterday to hand out water bottles and some food to those willing to wait in line. That is the first help I have heard that has reached their area of Puerto Rico. Justin and Jo still have food and they are collecting rain water and spring water to drink. But they need the water filters in one of those packages that is still in transit. There was a video on a Rincon Facebook page demonstrating some items that would be welcomed if they could be sent. Tomorrow I will go to Walmart to see if they have some of these items. One was a device that looks like a light switch that can be mounted on the wall. When you turn the light switch on, it emits light. Another was a light bulb that screws into a battery-operated socket that can be switched off and on. I’ve never seen either of these things, but I can see that they would be handy if you had batteries. Another particularly heartening thing I saw on Facebook is that the Rincon Beer Company in downtown Rincon is in the process of temporarily changing to a donation center and soup kitchen for local residents. They are serving as a community hub and are open daily from 9am to 5pm with free wifi. So Jo’s parents and myself are now communicating with Justin and Jo using WhatsApp on our phones. We can send messages and if they go to the Rincon Beer Company, they will receive them and can get back to us. The Rincon Beer Company is accepting donations, but at this point, Jo’s parents and myself would rather make our donations directly to Justin and Jo. We know they will share with those in need. Jo’s parents, Phil and Margaret, and I have formed a united front. Since they live in England, it is much easier for me to buy and do the sending of items through the US Postal Service, but we are sharing the costs. We’ll have to come up with a catchy name for our little organization! If you want to contribute, let me know and I’ll get information to you on the best way to do this. There is no end to the things needed by Justin and Jo and the people of Rincon.
2017 Life Logs, Day 259: Fun in the Sun Saturday
Date: Saturday, September 16, 2017
Weather: Foggy Start and End to a Sunny Day; High 77, Low 62 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Studio, Falmouth, MA
Soccer . . . lunch on the beach . . . soccer . . . soccer . . . skate park. That was today. The day started and ended with fog, but in between we had loads of fun in the sun. Since the Goldpebbles spent the night with me, we had a big breakfast before heading to the soccer field for Ollie’s first practice/game of the season. Ollie decided not to play last year, but he got up this morning saying he really wanted to play this year. We got to the field, met up with Heather, found out that he was on a team with no one he knows, and when he saw all those strangers, he quickly changed his mind. He put on the new uniform, but that was as far as we got. I’m sure he feels pressured to play because his older brothers live, eat, and breath soccer. He loves it, too, and is quite good at it when he is at home and playing with people he knows. But playing with strangers is just not his thing, so we’ll just have to wait another year and try again if he shows interest. But his buddies from the Woods Hole Day Care invited us to join them for lunch on the beach, and he was all in for that. The fog was starting to lift by that time, and kids had a great time in the water and on the beach. Heather had to leave the soccer field early to take Jonah to meet up with friends who were going to take him to his off-Cape soccer game, but she returned to have lunch with us and spend time with Ollie and Sam on the beach. Then she headed to Woods Hole to moderate a discussion about how Rachel Carson’s life work has guided women in science. My friend, Olivia White, attended the session and sent me a photo of Heather in action. By this time, Ollie and I were at a different field watching Sam’s soccer game. Jed is the coach for this team but was not there today because he was at a conference. It was the first game of the season after only one practice. The boys played hard but lost this game. Still, at the end of the game, they were in high spirits. Sam went home with a friend and Ollie and I walked across the parking lot to the skate park. There were a few older kids there negotiating the jumps on scooters, but Ollie found some jumps not being used and gave it a go on his strider. This was his first try at this. Scary for a grandmother to watch, but Ollie loved it and was very sensible in what he thought he should try. Whew! Ollie and I got home just a little before Heather arrived, and when she got home she announced that Jonah’s game ended in a tie, but Jonah and his good friend Luke made two of the three goals. I didn’t get to see Jonah, but I know he was one proud little soccer player.
Tomorrow is supposed to be another nice day, so I’m hoping to get in some biking and sailing. These last days of summer are precious and won’t be with us much longer. Make hay while the sun shines!
2017 Life Logs, Days 167: Sam (of Windbird) Comes to Visit
Date: Friday, June 16, 2017
Weather: Cloudy with a Threat of Rain, Temp in the Low 70’s F
Location: At Home in The Studio, Falmouth, MA
When the phone rang just after 1 o’clock this afternoon, I realized I had been sitting at my computer all morning totally engrossed in the family history project. I knew I had to go to the grocery store and prep dinner and that Sam (of Windbird) would be arriving mid-afternoon, but all of that got lost as I got caught up in the history of Europe from about 700 to 1200 AD. It was Sam on the phone saying he was already on Route 3 and would be here in a little over an hour, so I had to hustle. As I have written before, Sam is a Delta pilot and this week he is doing a Boston to London, London to Boston, and London back to Boston run. He heads back to London tomorrow evening, but decided to rent a car to come down to visit tonight. He arrived in his pilot uniform, looking very ‘official’. After he changed into something more comfortable and I finished prepping dinner, we took a quick tour of Falmouth and Woods Hole. It had to quick as Heather and gang were coming for an early dinner. We had hoped to go to the opening game of the Falmouth Commodores, our collegiate league summer baseball team, but the threat of rain caused the game to be cancelled. So I didn’t have to hurry to get dinner on the table right at 5 pm. Whew!
Ollie had his last day of preschool today. Heather was a bit sad thinking about the fact that next fall there will not be a Goldstone in the Woods Hole Daycare Cooperative for the first time in eight years. And Ollie has some good friends that he is really going to miss. No one in the preschool will be going to East Falmouth with him, so next fall will be a time to make new friends.
Sam Goldstone, not Sam from Windbird, will be graduating from East Falmouth Elementary School next week and today went on a 14 mile bike ride with the other fourth graders. They had a nice lunch stop at a beach to play soccer. Why didn’t I go to elementary school on Cape Cod?
Tomorrow morning Sam and I are off to Boston for the Parade of Tall Ships. Neither of us has the time to watch the entire six hour parade, but we will hope to get a glimpse.
2017 Life Logs, Day 106: Happy Easter with Circus Xtreme
Date: Sunday, April 16, 2017
Weather: Foggy AM, Sunny PM; 83 degrees in Worcester
Location: At Home in The Studio, Falmouth, MA
We had a fabulous spring celebration today starting with an Easter egg hunt and then traveling north to Worcester, Massachusetts, to see the Ringling Brothers and Barnum & Bailey Circus Xtreme. It takes almost two hours to get to Worcester, but it was worth it. The circus was spectacular. Our ringmaster today was a female and actually she was just hired in January as Ringling Brothers first ever female ringmaster in their 146-year history. We saw high wire acts, camels, tigers, a human shot out of a cannon, trained poodles, tons of clowns, and swirling and whirling humans on the floor and hanging from the rafters. Sam loved the dogs, Ollie loved the tigers, and Jonah loved an aerial ballet act with glow-in-the-dark costumes. There was no way to adequately capture that one in a photograph, but hopefully I got video. And then the finale was over the top with trampoline artists, break dancers, and crazy BMX bikers. But again, no photos, as the action was too fast and furious. I think we all loved the finale and it made me sad to think that at the end of May, the circus will be no more. I’m so glad we went today. I thought of Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco many times during the show. I wished they could have been there as I know they would have loved it as well. And we ended the evening with dinner at a neighborhood Italian restaurant that was equally spectacular. So, it was a Happy Easter here.
Tomorrow morning Heather, Jed, and boys are off to Washington, DC, for spring break week and tomorrow afternoon I head to Boston to fly to the Bahamas. I will post a log tomorrow night, but once I am in the Bahamas, I will not be able to post logs every night. I’ll write them and then post them when we have internet. So no worries if there is no log.
2017 Life Logs, Day 76: Happy St. Patrick’s Day
Date: Friday, March 17, 2017
Weather: Continued Cold; High 44, Low 25 degrees F
Location: At Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
Happy St. Patrick’s Day! It was just a tad warmer here today which was definitely welcomed. I spent most of the day exploring housing possibilities but found no perfect place. That search will continue. I also picked Ollie up early from school to bring him home with me to play for a bit. At the end of the afternoon we ended up back at his house where I had dinner with the boys while Heather headed to the elementary school to set up for a Friday night dance sponsored by the PTO. After dinner, I delivered the boys there and hopefully they had a fun evening. Tomorrow Jed returns from his week in Baltimore and the whole family heads to Wellfleet on the Outer Cape where Heather gives a presentation and the family spends the night. I will stay here to start the process of getting myself back into some sort of normal pattern after being away for so many weeks.