by Judy Handley | Apr 4, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 95: Happy Anniversary to Justin and Jo
Date: Saturday, April 4, 2020
Weather: Overcast with a Little Sunshine Late Day; High 43 degrees, Low 33 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Justin and Jo were married on this day in 2007. They met in Massachusetts, got married in California, moved to New Mexico where they had Ziggy and Coco, and then moved to Puerto Rico where they now live on their two acres they call Finca Maravilla. This week they celebrated spring with the arrival of a foal, twin goat kids, and baby bunnies. A beautiful abundance of life in these otherwise grim times. As we are here, and as Jo’s family is in England, Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco are living under the threat of the coronavirus. My anniversary wish for them is that we all work as hard as we can to stay safe and healthy. I know they did not go out to celebrate, but I hope they had a wonderful day celebrating their wonderful life together.
Today was a work day here and I think it was a most productive one. There are still things to move out of the storage unit tomorrow morning, but it will be done. Heather cleaned out the big chest freezer this morning and left it to defrost while we moved things from storage. Then we returned to move it to the new house. As we all stood there looking at it, Jed said he really thought they needed a special dolly with a strap. I reminded them that my friends Peter and Karen Baranowski had offered the use of their dolly and suggested we call them to see if it might do the job. It sounded like just what we needed, so Jed and I went to get it. It made what seemed a very difficult task so much easier. Heather and Jed were able to get it out of the basement, into the van, out of the van at the new house, and down the hill to the entrance to basement. Thank you, thank you to Peter and Karen. While Heather and Jed moved the freezer, I stayed home with the boys and we worked together to get laundry that was on the couch folded. By the time Heather and Jed got home and announced their victorious feat, the boys had put their folded clothes away, the pizza for dinner was delivered, and they were ready for a movie night to celebrate a job well done. I came home to be with Shadow as I had to leave him at home today so we could get the work done. I did come home to have lunch with him and this evening we played outside and took a nice long walk. Tomorrow will be more of the same. Once the storage unit is emptied and everything is carried down to the basement, the work upstairs can begin. Right now it seems like the Never Ending Story, but in another couple of weeks, I think the Goldstones will be settled in their new home. We just have to move forward one day at a time.
by Judy Handley | Apr 3, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 94: Craziness
Date: Friday, April 3, 2020
Weather: Stormy; High 44 degrees, Low 40 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Please tell me I’m not crazy. My good friends Olivia, Karen, and Jane spend their days sewing face masks for the local visiting nurses because they don’t have any. I’m very proud of the contribution they are making, but it makes me ask, “Is this the 21st century? Do we live in the most powerful country in the world?” I guess not. I hear our President say daily that we are under attack by an invisible enemy. I hear him say we are at war, that he is a war President. But if we were being attacked by a visible enemy, would the President of this great country be telling each state governor to wage the war however they want? I don’t think so. This is craziness.
Sorry. I just had to get that off my chest. But the craziness doesn’t end there. The fact that Heather and Jed are trying work full time from home, oversee some semblance of schooling for three boys at three different grade levels, while staging a move into a new house with no outside help all come with their craziness as well. These things are possible, but they are challenging. Why do they have to do the remodeling and the move all by themselves? Well, remodeling projects are non-essential so you can’t get that kind of work done with our current stay-at-home policy in place. And as for not hiring professional movers . . . who in their right mind would want people you don’t know touching everything you own and moving it into your new home in these times? It’s hard enough to wipe off all groceries that come into your home. But everything? No. Moving yourself is not easy, but it is certainly easier than taking a chance on getting Covid-19. So today, I went to the new house and cleaned the garage while Heather and Jed worked at home. While I was there, the dumpster they have rented was delivered and at some point, it will be filled with the carpeting and other things in the house that need to go. Tomorrow morning, I’ve offered to go to their current home and help clean out their freezer in the basement. It has to be defrosted and then moved to the basement of the new house and repacked. Add to that, the emptying of the storage unit they rented and filled with things from their current house to get it ready to show. That unit has be emptied by 2:30 pm on Sunday. Else, they have to pay for another month. Aye-yai-yai. I don’t know how they are keeping their sanity, but they are. One day at a time, things will get done. I’ll help as I can. But I certainly hope that with all these issues that at least the weather improves. Today we experienced a nor’easter with high winds and more rain from gray skies. Yes, April showers bring May flowers, but could we please have showers, not storms. And warmer weather . . . please.
During all of this, Shadow and I continue to enjoy our daily walks, even in the rain. And I spend a bit of time each day keeping in contact with family and friends. This evening I attended what has become a weekly Friday evening gathering of my Wine Group via Zoom. And I talked with Mark’s sister and brother-in-law, Mary Ellen and Lee, in Bonita Springs, Florida. They, and all the Florida Handley Clan, are all weathering the Covid-19 storm and staying healthy. Good to hear. And the big excitement today was that there was a front page article in the local weekly Falmouth Enterprise with the headline, “Circumnavigating the Globe Has Never a Dull Moment.” The article was the result of an interview I had with a local reporter a couple of weeks ago. I’m not convinced I said everything she put in quotes, but it was fun to read about the adventure!
by Judy Handley | Apr 2, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 93: Writing Day
Date: Thursday, April 2, 2020
Weather: Overcast and Rainy; High 46 degrees, Low 40 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Electrical work was being done in the basement of Heather and Jed’s new house today, so we all stayed home and focused on other things. Things will start to ramp up tomorrow and if the current plan sticks, the big move will happen late next week. In the meantime, there is more cleaning, getting old carpeting out of the house, more stripping of wallpaper, painting, and moving things out of the temporary storage unit by Sunday at 2:30 pm in order to avoid paying for another whole month. No lack of things to do!
I had an afternoon Memoir Writing Class on Zoom this afternoon, so I took advantage of the day off and focused on writing. I spent my time continuing to edit my Book Introduction and Chapter 1, plus reading and making recommendations on another class member’s piece we were to focus on during class today. Those of us who are now meeting weekly via Zoom are finding this just as effective as meeting in person. Jerry Lanson is our fearless leader. As another class member said this afternoon, Jerry’s experience as a college writing teacher is invaluable. His experience, plus his gentle and caring manner, sets everyone at ease and makes it so easy to share. And his editing skills are amazing. After years of thinking about writing, Jerry’s encouragement has finally nudged me forward. Thank you, Jerry.
by Judy Handley | Apr 1, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 92: Reboot
Date: Wednesday, April 1, 2020
Weather: Overcast, Rain Late; High 41 degrees, Low 38 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
It is late, so this will be short. I spent my morning editing a piece for my writing class and in the afternoon I tuned in to Heather’s webinar. She did a phenomenal job. My one big takeaway was that the states that moved early and quickly to control the coronavirus are also the same states that have aggressive climate change policies. Interesting. I had intended to head over to H & J’s new house to do a cleaning project afterwards, but one thing and then another happened and then it was too late to go. So, with a little time before dinner, I made a call to my sister-in-law that lives in Boynton Beach on the East Coast of Florida. Sue is in her 80’s and I just wanted to check in to see how she and Brad are doing. They have had three friends die of the coronavirus. They last saw these friends on March 1 when they attended a show together. But thankfully Sue and Brad are doing fine. I was relieved to hear that. I then had to get creative to fix dinner as the refrigerator is almost empty of fresh veggies. But salmon cakes made from canned salmon and canned artichoke hearts dipped in an egg mixture and corn meal and then fried turned into a great dinner along with a fermented red cabbage salad. I used one egg mixed with water for the artichoke hearts and used what was left to make the salmon cakes. I enjoyed my dinner and then I spent the rest of the evening having technical difficulties. I lost my wifi connection on my computer and on my phone but not on my television. I tried everything I could think of, but nothing worked. And I couldn’t Google solutions as I had no internet. I sent a “Help ASAP” text to Jed and another to Justin and soon got a call from Justin. He led me through many of the things I had already tried and a few more that I never would have known how to do, but still no internet. I had not thought to reboot the router system since I still had a television connection, but as Justin and I gave up and said goodnight, he suggested that I try a reboot. I did and it worked. Thank you, Justin. I should have tried that to begin with. I have to admit that losing the internet connection for just a couple of hours had me in a panic, more so than usual. In these times of not seeing friends in person or attending any activities, I have become totally dependent on the internet to make connections. The Zoom classes and social meetings are wonderful and I panicked thinking that maybe my computer had an issue that couldn’t be resolved. But all is well as this first day of April comes to an end.
by Judy Handley | Mar 31, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 91: Climate Change in the Era of COVID-19
Date: Tuesday, March 31, 2020
Weather: Mostly Cloudy, Sunshine Late Day; High 40 degrees, Low 30 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Tomorrow afternoon at 2:30 pm, Heather is hosting a webinar on Climate Change in the Era of COVID-19. The intended audience ranges from middle and high school students to scientists to the general public. If you would like to attend, just Google Woods Hole Research Center Spring Webinars, click on Spring 2020 Webinar Series—Woods Hole Research Center, scroll down and click on Register.
Climate Change in the Era of COVID-19
Heather Goldstone, Chief Communications Officer
with opening remarks by Phil Duffy, President & Executive Director
The novel coronavirus pandemic has been compared to climate change at warp speed. Heather Goldstone will introduce what we know about the causes and increasingly apparent impacts of climate change, and explore connections between the COVID-19 and climate crises – including the need to ensure that pandemic response policies also advance climate preparedness.
REGISTER
My early morning emails brought more good news from Puerto Rico. One of Justin and Jo’s nanny goats had twins and both were girls—Opal and Pearl. In the last few days they have welcomed a new foal named Barnaby, baby bunnies, and now kid goats. A true celebration of spring in these otherwise dark times. I made some cleaning progress at Heather and Jed’s new house today while Heather, Jed, and boys worked and schooled at home. I had some ‘technical difficulties’ with hooking up a hose to start cleaning the front entrance to the house, but in the late afternoon Jed arrived with Ollie and Jonah and solved my leaky hose hook-up. Hopefully I can complete that project tomorrow. I also took advantage of the washer and dryer at the new house today and did my first laundry in a machine since the first week of March. I have been doing great at keeping up with the essentials by washing them in a 5 gallon bucket in the bathtub, but it was great to have the use of a washing machine and dryer to do jeans and winter sweaters. Hopefully those sweaters can be stored away until next year. When I got home, I spent some time preparing for my Thursday Memoir Writing Class on Zoom. And then I just kicked back, relaxed, and caught up on the daily news—not relaxing. On to tomorrow.
by Judy Handley | Mar 30, 2020 | 2020 Life Logs |
2020 Life Logs, Day 90: Chipping Away
Date: Monday, March 30, 2020
Weather: Overcast and Misty; High 44 degrees, Low 36 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Today a children’s song about chipping away layers of fossil rock kept creeping into my head. “Chip, chip away those layers of clay. Knock, knock, knock to the fossil rock.” I arrived at Heather and Jed’s new house around noon to install shelving liners in the kitchen. Then mid-afternoon after hours of working and schooling at home, the Goldstones arrived. Heather started chipping away at the stubbornly attached wallpaper on the walls of the master bedroom while Sam and Jonah were upstairs removing the carpeting tack strips with hammers and crowbars. Jed was unloading a van full of bins from the old basement to the new. And Ollie and I were taking down curtains, putting them in the washer while going back to wash the windows, putting the curtains in the dryer and then putting the curtains back up. We are all working as fast and as hard as we can, yet it is a little overwhelming to think about how much more needs to be done. But we shall persist until the move is complete.
