by Judy Handley | Mar 6, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 65: Broken Record–Still Editing
Date: Sunday, March 6, 2022
Weather: Overcast with Rain, Windy; High 51, Low 45 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
I know I am beginning to sound like a broken record, but I am still editing. My goal of completing my editing of The Voyage of Windbird, Book One, by 4 pm on my birthday was not realized. And I am still editing. I have one chapter to go, and hopefully tomorrow or the next day I will finish. But what then? I wait for my friend who does the first ‘English teacher’ edit to complete the last four chapters. Then I can self-publish a few copies for beta readers. I just got this idea today while talking to my friends Kevin and Claire in Guaymas, Mexico. Kevin asked me when he and Claire could become beta readers. I had heard the term, but he explained it in more detail. If you aren’t familiar with the term, it is a layperson who reads the work to offer constructive criticism, or to help edit. I do have one beta reader who has read all but the last four chapters to give constructive criticism. Her input has been invaluable. Now I will search for others who are interested. Kevin and Claire want me to send the book electronically. If you are reading this and would be interested in becoming a beta reader, please let me know. I would love to have you on my team.
Kevin and Claire had hoped to have their sailboat, White Raven, in the water by now and be living aboard in the Sea of Cortez. But repairs are taking longer than they hoped, so now they have set their goal to have enough of the upgrades and repairs done so that they can at least get the boat in the water to check things out before leaving Mexico for the summer. Kevin knows from being there last summer that July is just too hot, plus it is hurricane season. Hopefully when they return in October, they can get White Raven back in the water and begin their live aboard life next cruising season.
by Judy Handley | Mar 5, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 64: Three x Twenty-five
Date: Saturday, March 5, 2022
Weather: Sunny; High 39, Low 34 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
The first gift for my 75th birthday was waking to a bright, sunny morning. Then the Facebook, text message, snailmail and email birthday greetings started coming in. How wonderful it was to hear from so many friends and family members, both far and near–sailing friends from Australia, Kevin and Claire in Mexico, Linda and Mike in Colorado, Lynne in New Zealand, Leslie on vacation in Hawaii, Alan and Helaine in Dedham, Detta in New Hampshire, nieces and nephews on vacation in Florida, high school friends, dear friends from my days in the Concord, New Hampshire and the Seaford, Delaware school systems, friends from our years living in southern West Virginia, friends from Mark’s days at New Hampshire Public Radio, and my wonderful friends here in Falmouth. Friendship is the greatest gift of all. Thank you for thinking of me on this special day.
As I reflected on my 75 years, I decided it was easiest to think of those years in three sets of twenty-five, the three stages of my life to date. The first twenty-five were spent growing up and getting an education. The second twenty-five were spent with Mark building our family, building homes, and building our careers. The third twenty-five were focused on sailing and travel. Now what? Three quarters down and one quarter to go. I love to write, and I love to spend time with my grandchildren. Those are the things that fill my days in the beginning of this fourth quarter. It will be exciting to see where things go from here.
This morning I went to the Falmouth Science Fair. Sam, with good friends Robert and Sebastian, won third place in their category and were awarded $200.
They were elated and went to Hyannis to the Brazilian Grille for a celebratory lunch. Jonah and his friend Jean-Luc were awarded High Honors for their project for which Jonah was extremely proud.
Both teams completed their projects without help from parents. The boys are really growing up. So proud of them.
Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco sent presents that arrived today. I received a rack that holds three glass vases for growing plants hydroponically and a frame for air plants.
The air plants will arrive next week. During the holiday season I saw the rack with the glass vases at the nearby garden center and almost bought it on three different occasions. But I refrained, telling myself it was an extravagance that I couldn’t afford. Justin and Jo must have read my mind as I never mentioned it to anyone. So, I was delighted when it arrived today. Then they called via Skype video, and we had a wonderful visit.
I got to see Ziggy’s guinea pigs,
his hamster, and the dogs. Coco told me about her football (soccer) games and Ziggy showed me the clay figure he used in his latest animation. I can’t wait until April when I get to see them in person.
Tonight, I went to Heather and Jed’s for a sushi dinner and game night.
When I arrived, Sam was whipping the cream to top the chocolate decadence cake. After filling ourselves with sushi, we cut the cake.
Honestly, it was the best birthday cake I have ever had. Heather insisted I bring some home to have for breakfast and I’m looking forward to that. She finished the afghan she has been working on as a gift for me and it is gorgeous.
Plus, they gave me an ‘out of this world’ pottery serving plate. I say it is ‘out of this world’ not only because it is beautiful, but because it contains meteorite particles that came from the Asteroid Belt between Mars and Jupiter, literally out of this world.
When meteorites are cut up for research and display purposes, there are small waste pieces that result from the cutting. A potter from Celestial Ceramics in West Bethel, Maine, incorporates the waste pieces in the glaze of his pieces. After dinner and presents, we played Trivial Pursuit and had a ball. Ollie decided to be the card reader. There was a question about Malcom X. When Ollie misread it as Malcom the Tenth, I was not sure Heather and Jed were going to recover from the laughter. It was a lovely evening and the perfect way to celebrate a birthday.
by Judy Handley | Mar 4, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 63: Just Editing
Date: Friday, March 4, 2022
Weather: Sunny and Cold; High 30, Low 22 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Not much to report on this eve of my 75th birthday. Three-quarters of a century? Can’t possibly be true, I say to myself. March 4th was my mother’s birthday. If she were still living, she would be a celebrity because she would have turned 114 today. She was born in 1908. I was born when she was 39, when my brothers and sisters were all in their teens. Only one sibling is still living, my sister Patsy. She will be 89 this year, is suffering from dementia, and doesn’t remember that tomorrow is my birthday. Her husband, who passed away in 2019, shared my mother’s birthday. But when I talked to my sister tonight, she didn’t remember that either. So sad. But I don’t want to focus on the sadness. I am just excited to start planning for the next twenty-five years! I’ve always wondered what I will be when I grow up. I guess it is time to find out.
The editing is never ending. I made progress today, but I will have two and a half chapters to go. I can’t see how I can get it done by 4 pm tomorrow, but I am going to continue to try. If not by then, by the end of the weekend for sure.
by Judy Handley | Mar 3, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 62: Belfast
Date: Thursday, March 3, 2022
Weather: Mostly Sunny; High 42, Low 15 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Tonight, I finally got to watch Belfast. I had hoped to watch it last week, but it wasn’t available to rent until March 1. I could have bought it last week, but I waited. What an important story Kenneth Branagh brought forth in such a powerful way. Buddy, the young boy at the heart of the story, and his Pop, his grandfather, were my favorite characters, but the entire cast was top notch. Last week when I couldn’t watch Belfast, I watched The Power of the Dog. It was too dark for me, but the acting was superb. Next, I want to find a way to watch Dune.
The rest of my day was spent editing. I am making progress. Still not sure I can finish the first edit of all sixteen chapters by 4 pm on Saturday, my self-imposed deadline, but I am hopeful.
The Falmouth Public School Science Fair is on Saturday. I captured a couple of photos from Facebook today of Sam and his good friends Sebastian and Robert celebrating the completion of their entry.
Mark and I came home from Australia for Sam’s first birthday and met Sebastian at the birthday party. I can’t believe those beautiful babies are so grown up. I will go to the Science Fair on Saturday to check out the projects.
And I’ll end with a little rant about the cold weather. I just got in from taking Shadow outside and it is cold out there. Tomorrow is supposed to be sunny and seriously cold. I have enjoyed the winter to this point, but I am ready for warmer weather!
by Judy Handley | Mar 2, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 61: More Like a Lamb Today
Date: Wednesday, March 2, 2022
Weather: Sunny; High 45, Low 33 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
The weather was more like a lamb today. There was sunshine and continued warmer temps. But that ends tomorrow night when the thermometer plunges back into the teens. Most of the snow and ice has thawed, but not all of it. Spring still seems far away. In the meantime, I planted my first seeds indoors today.
Today Karen Baranowski and I went to visit her aunts and my friends and sometimes next door neighbors, Shirley and Doris. Doris is 103 and suffered strokes last summer that left her without mobility and speech. Due to care issues, she will not be returning next door. Hopefully Shirley will get to come back for a period of time this summer. But today, Doris was sitting in a seat next to a window looking out onto the North River in her home in Scituate—a beautiful view.
Shirley, who will turn 97 in June, is reading her way through this winter. She had already read the books I sent her a week or so ago and was ready for more. It was a beautiful day for a drive, a good visit and the sunshine brightened all our lives.
I returned home and spent the afternoon editing. My editing has changed my chapter numbering, but of the original 18 chapters, today I completed the first edit round of chapter 13 (now chapter 11 of 16). I don’t think it is possible, but my goal is to try to finish the last 5 chapters in two days. I would love to have the first edit round completed by my birthday on Saturday. Unrealistic. Yes. Impossible. No. I have until 4 pm on Saturday to finish. That is when I go to Heather and Jed’s for an evening of playing games and eating sushi to celebrate my birthday.
by Judy Handley | Mar 1, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 60: Lion Declaration
Date: Tuesday, March 1, 2022
Weather: Mostly Cloudy; High 42, Low 34 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
I don’t remember ever having to make a decision about whether or not March came in like a lion or a lamb. It is usually clear cut. Today there were no roaring winds, no pouring rain, no raging blizzard. It was a few degrees warmer this morning than the past few days and the sun was shining early. Then the cloud cover came in and the wind increased and felt icy despite the warmer temperature. But is that ‘like a lion’? And where did this lion versus lamb thing come from anyway? The Farmers’ Almanac says it is folklore that stems from ancient beliefs in balance. The weather at the start of March is bad like a roaring lion, then to be in balance, the month should end with good weather, gentle like a lamb. Or visa, versa. After considering all of this I declare that it came in like a lion. I sure hope it goes out like a lamb.
The women in my dining-in group have started the tradition going to lunch together to celebrate each birthday. 
Due to travel schedules, we combined three birthdays into one luncheon and that was today. One birthday was on February 21, one is March 3, and mine is on March 5. One of us turns 74, one 75, and one 76. That’s 225 years of wonderful life. We had lunch in The Atrium at the Daniel Webster Inn. It was a beautiful venue, and it was great to be together.
