by Judy Handley | Jun 4, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 155: Wonderful First Day with Ziggy and Coco
Date: Saturday, June 4, 2022
Weather: Partly Cloudy; High 81, Low 57 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Gate House at the Monroe Institute, Faber, VA
An early morning walk with Justin and Jo down through the field to explore an old log barn . . .
a walk up the mountain with JJZ&C to a beautiful little lake . . .
jumping off the dock into the water (even Oma) . . .
canoeing in the lake (even Oma) . . .
having lunch at the Roberts Mountain Retreat . . . seeing the largest single quartz crystal in the world in the side yard of the retreat center . . . having Ben and Jerry’s ice cream in Charlottesville followed by a shopping spree at a thrift store for Coco, Target for Legos for Ziggy, Whole Foods for sustenance, and to Love Sushi King to pick up dinner . . . seeing lots of deer on our way home . . . seeing a deer looking in the bedroom window of the Gate House as we drove into the driveway . . . making our first entries in our nature logs . . . having sushi dinner back in the Gate House . . . later driving up the mountain to the retreat center to pick Justin and Jo up . . . seeing a skunk on the way up the mountain . . . Justin and Jo having story time with the kids and then driving them back up the mountain where they will be spending their evenings, overnights, and mornings into the early afternoon for the rest of the week . . . seeing an eastern gray fox and a deer on the way back down the mountain . . . tucking the kids intro bed and Oma writing her log. That was our wonderful day in nutshell.
It is after midnight and I just tucked Coco and Ziggy into bed. None of us really knew what the schedule would be like this week, but now we know that we will only have three hours in the afternoon with Justin and Jo. But we are welcome to go up to the retreat center and swim in the pool and walk on the mountain paths at anytime as long as we are quiet and don’t interrupt. Tomorrow we will go up around 11 am, take a walk on a mountain path, and then swim in the pool until Justin and Jo are ready to come down and have some afternoon time with us. On Monday and Tuesday, Ziggy, Coco, and I have plans to go
to Monticello and to the Grand Caverns, but we will try to get back in time to have time with Justin and Jo. We’ll just be flexible and see where the week leads us.
All of us are really enjoying our time here. The area is beautiful, teeming in wild life, and the atmosphere is just so relaxing. I don’t think Ziggy and Coco have ever spent this much time away from their mom and dad, but they seem to be adjusting to the idea. They have been so helpful and so much fun to be with. Let’s just hope the week gets even better!
by Judy Handley | Jun 3, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 154: Missed Flight, but All is Well
Date: Friday, June 3, 2022
Weather: Partly Cloudy; High , Low degrees F
Location: At Home in the Gate House at the Monroe Institute, Faber, VA
I missed my flight this morning, which I will explain, but with Heather’s quick research skills, I got to Richmond to meet up with Justin and family just an hour or so late. If it hadn’t been for Heather, I wouldn’t have arrived until mid-afternoon, so big thanks to H! Despite getting up at 3 am and driving out of the driveway by 3:20, I was three minutes late checking my bag. Because I had purchased an economy ticket, Jet Blue would not let me take my bag as a carry on. So at 5:30 am, they rescheduled me for an 11 am flight. I checked and could find no other flights going to either Reagan or Dulles until later in the afternoon on any airline, so the 11 am flight seemed the best bet. The original plan was for me to fly to DC because it was half the price, and then rent a car to drive to Richmond to pick up JJZ&C. None of us could afford to drive into Charlottesville which is where we needed to be. But under the original plan, we would all meet in Richmond and then drive to Charlottesville together. But my later than planned arrival (must have bags checked 40 minutes prior to flight) blew those plans out of the water. I sent a text to Heather, who gets up at 5:30 every morning, to tell her what happened. Then a few minutes later, she texted back with info on an 8:40 Jet Blue flight to Richmond. I would arrive an hour after Justin and family. I immediately got back in the long help line and waited an hour and a half in line and at the help desk. It took forever for some supervisor to say they could change the flight to Richmond, but I would have to fly home from Reagan in DC. That was not going to work. So, it took another forever, plus two supervisors to finally make the change for me to fly into and back out of Richmond. It doubled the cost,, but at that point I was ready to pay anything to just get there. So, I did. While waiting for all that to happen, I cancelled my rental car reservation out of Reagan and rented a car in Richmond. I should not have been so cheap and done this to begin with, but it all worked out.
Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco had hoped to get to the San Juan airport last night and get some sleep before their 3 am flight. But no one really slept. They flew to Orlando and then had a bit of a wait for the flight to Richmond. Again, no sleep. But everyone was in a great mood despite being tired
and we continued on and had a wonderful day. At no extra cost, a National Car Rental agent gave us a mini-van instead of the car I had reserved when he saw how much luggage we had. It’s a Toyota and it is super comfortable and the gas mileage is not bad. Thanks to that agent! We drove the hour and a half to Charlottesville, had lunch downtown, did some shopping for strings for a mandolin and for food, and arrived at the Monroe Institute about 30 minutes south of Charlottesville in the late afternoon. The view from Gate House where we are staying at the base of the 600-acre campus is beautiful.
But while Jo took a nap, Justin took me, Ziggy, and Coco further up the mountain to the main campus to explore. The view from the top is stunning.
I’ll explain more about what goes on here as I learn more, but I must say I was very impressed with what I saw today. In the buildings at the very top, Ziggy got to play the grand piano
and we met Robert who gave me an introduction to the research they do here at the Institute. He is probably around Justin’s age, and he is a sailor with a dream of sailing around the world. Needless to say, we got along great. While Justin continued talking with Robert, Ziggy, Coco, and I started walking back down the mountain hoping to see deer. We had not seen any when Justin picked us up, but then once in the van they started coming out of hiding. The kids were so excited as they have never seen deer before, at least not since they were old enough to remember.
After dinner, Justin and Jo went back up to meet the other artists who were coming in this evening from places far and wide. The kids were watching a movie on a computer while I started writing this log. But right now, Coco is snuggled up in Justin and Jo’s bed fast asleep and Ziggy is sound asleep on the living room floor right beside me. Life couldn’t be better.
by Judy Handley | Jun 2, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 153: Ready, Set . . .
Date: Thursday, June 2, 2022
Weather: Overcast; High 68, Low 55 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth
I’m running out of time, but I am almost ready and set to leave tomorrow morning at 3:15 am. Not my best time of day, but once I get on that 6 am flight from Boston Logan to Washington Reagan, all will be fine. Once there, I’ll pick up a rental car and head to Richmond, Virginia to pick up Justin and family and then on to the Charlottesville area where we will all be for the next week. Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco have a 3 am flight from San Juan directly to Richmond, so they are probably on their way to San Juan right now. They hope to check in early and nap for a couple of hours in the airport tonight. Hopefully I’ll be writing tomorrow night’s log from Faber, Virginia.
by Judy Handley | Jun 1, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 152: Gardening at Olga’s, Ollie’s Band Concert
Date: Wednesday, June 1, 2022
Weather: Overcast with Misty Periods; High 64, Low 54 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth
I spent my day in a friend’s backyard planting San Marzano and Matt’s Wild Cherry tomato plants I had grown from seed. My friend Olga is letting me use her raised beds this year to see if I can increase my yield. I really had to get them planted before leaving for Virginia as I had no way to water them in my absence. So, I weeded, roto tilled, dug holes, and planted tomatoes, cucumbers, and assorted winter squash plants.
Olga has a drip irrigation system, but we didn’t get that hooked up today. I return tomorrow to get that done and maybe get a bed of Matt’s Wild Cherry tomatoes planted here. But then all other gardening will have to wait until I return.
Tonight Heather and I went to Ollie’s band concert at Mullen Hall while Jed took both Sam and Jonah to soccer tryouts for next fall. Ollie is one of three fourth graders that play alto saxophone and they were definitely the best instrumental group (no Oma bias).
They were loud and clear and on key. Ollie’s favorite song that they played was When the Saints Go Marching In. I thought that was because the saxaphones were the predominant instrument. Ollie said it was because the saxes played loud because they were good! But that is not why it was his favorite. That tune was the school song for his East Falmouth Elementary where he attended kindergarten through third grade. He likes Mullen Hall but will be glad to be back with his friends from EFES next fall as all Falmouth fifth and sixth graders attend the same school. Since none of us had eaten dinner before the concert, we got sushi afterwards to celebrate.
by Judy Handley | May 31, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 151: Gardening
Date: Tuesday, May 31, 2022
Weather: Mostly Sunny, Thunder and Rain Late; High 78, Low 54 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
As I started to write this log, I realized I have been a day behind since Saturday. But I am now fully aware that tomorrow is Wednesday, and I leave here at 3:30 am Friday morning to get to Boston Logan for a 6 am flight to Washington, DC. I am in a bit of a panic as I have so much gardening that needs to be done. I worked on that today and will continue to work on it tomorrow. But what doesn’t get done tomorrow will just have to wait until I get back. I will be in Virginia until Saturday, June 11. June 12 is a little late for getting things planted, but it will just have to be for this year. I will spend Thursday getting ready to go and then sit back and enjoy the trip.
Shadow’s every six-week grooming appointment was set for next week when I will not be here. The groomer I take him to is so booked that there is no way to reschedule, so today I tried a groomer here in East Falmouth. I got a call around 2 pm saying that Shadow was not being cooperative and that he was very matted. I wanted to say that I knew that. That’s why I made the appointment to get him groomed. But I didn’t say it. I just had no suggestions. Shadow has gone to the groomer every six weeks of his life, and I am always told that he is so cooperative. As I listened to the groomer on the phone I figured out the problem. This groomer uses an industrial hair dryer that is very loud and she said Shadow really didn’t like it. I don’t think the other groomer uses a hair dryer at all. They have told me that Shadow’s hair has to be combed while it is partially wet because it is impossible to groom when totally dry. But I just told today’s groomer to do the best she could. Sam and I picked him up on our way to rowing in Hyannis. He looked fine but was a little shaken. He’ll survive, but I don’t think I’ll be taking him back to today’s groomer.
by Judy Handley | May 30, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 150: Memorial Day
Date: Monday, May 30, 2022
Weather: More Sunshine and Blue Skies; High 74, Low 64 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
The Goldstone’s were well represented at Falmouth’s Memorial Day parade and observance this morning.
The fire department brings out its tallest crane to fly the red, white and blue high above the library lawn where the observance takes place.
The military honor guard, the Veteran’s Association, town officials, the Scouts of Falmouth, and the Brian Boru Pipe Band parade from the Falmouth Greene to the library lawn to begin the celebration. Jonah led the Boy Scouts carrying a big American flag, but he was so hidden behind the flag that I didn’t see him.
I did see Sam and took photos of him.
Later, when I looked at the photos, I saw that it was Jonah wrapped in that big American flag. Jed led the Cub Scouts alongside Ollie who was carrying the American flag for the Cub Scouts.
After the parade, there was a program celebrating the lives lost while serving our country and giving thanks for the veterans in attendance. After the observance, all the Scouts gathered on the library steps for a photo op
and I manage to get a picture of the Goldstone Scouts–Jed, Sam, Jonah, and Ollie.
This evening Heather got home from week in San Diego and Telluride. She had a wonderful time. If you’ve got to travel for work, let it be travel to beautiful places. Sam and I grilled meat and veggies for dinner to celebrate the return home of both parents. I now have three days to get ready for my trip to Virginia to be with Justin, Jo, Ziggy, and Coco. If I am going to get the garden planted before I leave, I am going to have to move fast. So I had better get to bed so I can get an early start tomorrow.
a walk up the mountain with JJZ&C to a beautiful little lake . . .
jumping off the dock into the water (even Oma) . . .
canoeing in the lake (even Oma) . . .
having lunch at the Roberts Mountain Retreat . . . seeing the largest single quartz crystal in the world in the side yard of the retreat center . . . having Ben and Jerry’s ice cream in Charlottesville followed by a shopping spree at a thrift store for Coco, Target for Legos for Ziggy, Whole Foods for sustenance, and to Love Sushi King to pick up dinner . . . seeing lots of deer on our way home . . . seeing a deer looking in the bedroom window of the Gate House as we drove into the driveway . . . making our first entries in our nature logs . . . having sushi dinner back in the Gate House . . . later driving up the mountain to the retreat center to pick Justin and Jo up . . . seeing a skunk on the way up the mountain . . . Justin and Jo having story time with the kids and then driving them back up the mountain where they will be spending their evenings, overnights, and mornings into the early afternoon for the rest of the week . . . seeing an eastern gray fox and a deer on the way back down the mountain . . . tucking the kids intro bed and Oma writing her log. That was our wonderful day in nutshell.
to Monticello and to the Grand Caverns, but we will try to get back in time to have time with Justin and Jo. We’ll just be flexible and see where the week leads us. 
