by Judy Handley | Sep 7, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 251: Some Like It Hot
Date: Thursday, September 7, 2023
Weather: Hot; High 84, Felt Like 91, Low 70 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
Some like it hot, and I am one of those people. I love summer and I love hot weather, just not extremely hot weather. Here on the Cape, we often have a ‘hot’ first week of school, but that ‘hot’ weather is usually in the 70’s. A high temperature of 84 that feels like 91 in September on the Cape is hotter than normal. Sam and Jonah were both supposed to have soccer games at 4 pm this afternoon, but those games had to rescheduled for 6 pm due to the extreme heat. I went out to play catch with Shadow at 6 pm as I do most every day, and today he simply stopped playing and fell to the ground. He does that when he is tired, but today he didn’t get up. I finally got him to drink some water and then he went to the door to wait to get back inside. He has never done that before. I know that people in other parts of this country and around the world have high temps 20 degrees or more higher that we do, but this is just scary. I saw an article in the NYT yesterday with a title something to the effect of, “What are the High Temperatures in Your City Going to be in the Future?” I didn’t read it, but I am going to go back and find that article. We can’t bury our heads in the sand. We have to be prepared. And I have to remember to not run my Shadow so hard when it is this hot. What was I thinking?
My project today and tomorrow is processing the 30 pounds of organic paste tomatoes that I bought yesterday. I waited too late this year and won’t be able to buy my usual 90 to 120 pounds to turn into marinara sauce. We will just have to make do with less this winter or breakdown and buy commercially canned organic sauce. A few years ago, when Heather and I started the annual canning of enough marina sauce to get them through the winter, there was no organic sauce to buy. At least now we have that option.
by Judy Handley | Sep 6, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 250: Happy 20th Anniversary to Heather and Jed
Date: Wednesday, September 6, 2023
Weather: Hot and Hazy; High 81, Low 69 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
When I talked to Justin on Sunday, he asked me what I thought about having a son with a graying beard. And today Heather and Jed celebrated 20 years of marriage. I guess both should make me feel old, but they don’t. I’m just grateful that both of my children are happily married and that each is living their version of the good life. I went back through my photos this evening to see what we were doing on September 6 of each year since 2003. Of course, in 2003 we were in Boothbay, Maine, surrounded by family for a fabulous wedding weekend.
Then it was not until Mark and I returned from our sail around the world that I have photos of Heather, Jed, and boys on the anniversary day. In 2011, we were all (minus Ollie who was not yet born) having an anniversary dinner aboard Windbird in Woods Hole for the 8th anniversary.
01 Anniversary Dinner on Windbird
For number 10 in 2013, Heather and Jed went out dinner while Mark and I stayed with the boys. It was the first year that the anniversary photo included all three boys.
01 Look What Ten Years Can Do
A milestone. In 2017, I went with the whole family to Anejo on Main Street in Falmouth to celebrate number 14,
and then in 2021, we had a family dinner on the deck to celebrate the 18th anniversary and Rosh Hashanah.
Tonight’s photo was the first I have with no children in it.
Number 10 was the first with all three kids in the picture and number 20 is with none. Another milestone in life. Last year, September 6th was the first day of school and I have no anniversary photo—just photos of boys. Tonight, Heather and Jed went out to dinner at Bleu in Mashpee, and I am holding down the fort with those three boys. Happy Anniversary, Heather and Jed. Unless I live to be 96, I won’t be around for another 20 years, but I can only imagine what those years will bring … college and careers for Sam, Jonah, and Ollie, hopefully three marriages that will be as loving and lasting as Heather and Jed’s has been, grandchildren, and retirement years. Mark and I were married for 42 years, and each year just got better and better. I hope the same for Heather and Jed. At the 20-year mark, they have only just begun.
I enjoyed a wonderful morning sailing aboard L’Escargot
with Jane and Bruce Woodin and Sam Paterson.
It was a truly delightful sail. We had about 7 knots of wind, but as Bruce said, Sam is the master of sailing in light winds. Thank you, Bruce, Jane, and Sam. 
by Judy Handley | Sep 5, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 249: First Day of School
Date: Tuesday, September 5, 2023
Weather: Yet Another Beautiful Day; High 85, Low 66 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
Today was the first day of school. Heather sent a photo of the three boys, two of them not looking so happy.
Sam and Jonah had to get up at 6 am this morning to get ready to be at school by 7:20 am. Brutal. This was the first day of this for Jonah, so he was looking particularly grumpy. Ollie got up a bit early to be in the photo, but somehow he managed a smile.
At the end of another beautiful day, I had to go to Walmart to buy something. When I walked out, I was stopped in my tracks by the gorgeous red sails on the sunset.
From my new abode on Lakeview Avenue, I see neither the sunrise nor the sunset. I am going to have to make a habit of driving to the beach (or Walmart) near sunset this fall to see more sunsets.
Late this afternoon, I drove to the high school to see the first Falmouth High School soccer game of the season. Sam (number 12) did play in a tournament this past weekend, but this was the first official game. Both the JV and Varsity teams won their games this afternoon and Jonah (number 14) managed to get two goals for the JV.
by Judy Handley | Sep 4, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 248: No Labor on Labor Day
Date: Monday, September 4, 2023
Weather: Yet Another Beautiful Day; High 77, Low 65 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
On this beautiful day, I took the opportunity to do absolutely nothing. It really wasn’t a choice as the little bit of gardening and weed pulling I did yesterday set my back issues back a bit. I just have to stop doing those things I love but that I know will aggravate the two herniated disks in my back. And that is hard for me. But I actually enjoyed my day doing nothing. I sat in the sun, took a nap, played with Shadow, and read my book. I should do this more often!
Heather and gang returned from their weekend sail and invited me over for dinner. School starts tomorrow, Sam will be a junior in high school, Ollie will be in sixth grade, and Jonah … Jonah will be in high school. Hard to believe. Yesterday I had a long Skype conversation with Justin, Coco, and Ziggy. Jo is in England this week attending the wedding of a cousin. And Ziggy, like Jonah, is now a freshman in high school as well. Coco is home schooling for her sixth-grade year, and Ziggy is attending a private high school in Mayaguez. I said I did nothing today, but I did spend part of my evening trying to figure out when I can go to visit Justin, Jo, and the kids in Puerto Rico. I would love to go for Christmas, but the airfare is two to three times what it would in a non-holiday time. Plus, Heather, Jed, and kids will be in Maine and who would keep my Shadow? I’ll spend more time researching this and figure it out.
by Judy Handley | Sep 3, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 247: A Weekend of Beautiful Days and Sunsets
Date: Sunday, September 3, 2023
Weather: Yet Another Beautiful Day; High 76, Low 63 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
It has been a weekend of beautiful days and sunsets. Heather, Jed, and the boys have spent the weekend sailing Ardenna across Buzzards Bay from Marion to Quissett Harbor to Vineyard Haven and this afternoon to Great Harbor in Woods Hole.
I met them in Quissett Harbor on Friday evening for the first beautiful sunset and then this evening in Woods Hole.
Sam’s friend Robert joined them last night in Vineyard Haven, spent the night aboard, and sailed with them to Woods Hole and we all enjoyed the sunset together.
“Believe me my friend, there is nothing – absolutely nothing – half so much worth doing as simply messing about in boats.” So says Ratty to Mole in Kenneth Grahame’s classic novel ‘The Wind in the Willows’. And so says me.
by Judy Handley | Sep 2, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 246: Another Beautiful Day
Date: Saturday, September 2, 2023
Weather: Another Beautiful Day; High 70, Low 63 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
I got up at 5:45 am to go take Sam to Falmouth High School. He was meeting up with his soccer team to take a school bus to Nauset for a soccer tournament. I then came home and went back to bed for too long, got up and sat on the front deck with Shadow for a bit, went for a walk with Shadow, went to the store, made zucchini bread, and suddenly it was time to go back to pick up Sam. I took him home to shower and pack to go to the Vineyard to meet up with his parents and I went to a gathering of friends on Midge Frieswyk’s front deck. I then came back to pick up Sam to take him to the ferry in Woods Hole. By 7 pm, he was in a dinghy with his brothers and his friend Robert whose parents have a family home on the Vineyard.
And I was back home with Shadow having dinner. That’s what I did on this beautiful Cape Cod day. I’m hoping for another tomorrow so I can do some gardening.
