2019 Life Logs, Day 150: Free and Easy Day in Nyack

2019 Life Logs, Day 150: Free and Easy Day in Nyack
Date: Thursday, May 30, 2019
Weather: Overcast with Rain Late Afternoon; High 66, Low 61 degrees F
Location: At Home with Lynne Kirwin in Nyack, NY

It was another free and easy day here in Nyack with Lynne. Our goal for this visit was just to be together with no agenda, nothing we had to do, and that is what we have done. Late morning, we walked uptown to the post office and then look a long, circuitous route home. We had lunch, and like yesterday, we managed to talk away the afternoon while packing things into Lynne’s car. We were able to put a small bookcase in the backseat of the car which delighted Lynne. When she arrives in Michigan, she will be staying in a room at her sister’s home for the summer and fall, so she won’t have a lot of space. Still, having at least one small bookcase was a priority. Lynne will be working for the next three days at the Nyack Library annual book sale, and then on Monday she will finish up the last of the packing and head to Michigan on Tuesday. It seems so far away, but I know we will find ways to visit. We were supposed to go to her grandson’s baseball game this evening, but we had late afternoon pouring rain and the game was cancelled. Instead of an evening at the ball field, we had another lovely dinner at home. Tomorrow morning I head back to Massachusetts, but will be making an afternoon stop at the Newbridge on the Charles retirement village in Dedham, near Boston, to visit Alan and Helaine Kanegsberg in their new home.

2019 Life Logs, Day 149: From Cape Cod to Nyack, New York

2019 Life Logs, Day 149: From Cape Cod to Nyack, New York
Date: Wednesday, May 29, 2019
Weather: Overcast with Rain Late Afternoon; High 66, Low 57 degrees F
Location: At Home with Lynne Kirwin in Nyack, NY

The drive from Cape Cod to Nyack, New York, went without a hitch. It was four hours door to door with very little traffic. I did take a wrong turn after I crossed the Tappan Zee Bridge which delayed my arrival by fifteen minutes, but otherwise, it was a smooth trip. Lynne and I talked and walked the afternoon away and then Lynne fixed a fabulous salmon dinner with Brussels sprouts, sweet potatoes, and a salad. One thing I can always depend on is having great, healthy food to eat when I visit Lynne. Not sure what our plans are for tomorrow, but the whole point of this visit is to just spend time together before Lynne moves to Michigan next week.

2019 Life Logs, Day 148: Back to Cool Weather

2019 Life Logs, Day 148: Back to Cool Weather
Date: Tuesday, May 28, 2019
Weather: Overcast with Some Rain; High 62, Low 53 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA

As predicted, today was back to the cool weather we have had this spring. I actually wore a light-weight winter sweater and still needed a polar fleece vest, but I survived. I had a nice late morning walk with friend Karen Baranowski, came home to have lunch, and then headed into town to do my daily duty of riding the stationary bike at the gym. A little later, I went to Heather’s to be there when Ollie and Jonah got home from school. Actually, I went to the school to pick them up as I have most every Tuesday this school year, but they weren’t there. I called Heather and she reminded me that they are now walkers on Tuesday and I was supposed to be at the house to await their arrival. Letting them walk from school is something new, and I totally forgot. But I got home before them and all was well. I spent my evening getting ready for my trip to Nyack, New York, tomorrow. It is going to a little warmer there, but sunshine doesn’t seem to be in the forecast for here or there for the rest of the week. Oh well, Lynne and I will enjoy being together no matter what the weather.

2019 Life Logs, Day 147: Happy Memorial Day

2019 Life Logs, Day 147: Happy Memorial Day
Date: Monday, May 27, 2019
Weather: Sunny; High 76, Low 51 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA

What a beautiful Memorial Day weekend we had here on Cape Cod. After weeks of weather that was too cool and too dreary, this weekend made up for all that ugly weather by being absolutely gorgeous. Heather, Jonah, and Ollie walked with the Scouts in the downtown Memorial Day parade this morning. I drove separately and went straight to the library lawn to wait for them to arrive for the ceremony. As I was walking across the lawn. I spotted my good friend Olivia White. Olivia was sitting in one of the seats provided. In the past, I have always stood during the ceremony as I assumed those seats were for veterans and their families. But Olivia was sitting in one of those chairs and asked if I would like one. I hesitated because I thought taking one would be ‘against the rules.’ But Olivia simply asked, “Are you going to get one or am I?” I can’t believe I just stood there, frozen in place, while Olivia went to get a chair for me. My father did a good job of teaching me to follow the rules. I literally get paralyzed just at the thought that I might not be following rules. But I’m glad Olivia doesn’t have that hang up because sitting during the ceremony was much more pleasant that standing the whole time. Thank you, Olivia! I watched Ollie and Sam walking up the library walk with their Scouting buddies and once everyone was in place, the ceremony began. Afterwards there was a group photo of all the Scouts attending and then we headed home. I stopped at the gym to ride the stationary bike on the way home and then headed to Heather’s. She was working on assembling another raised bed and the boys were relaxing in the backyard—Sam in the hammock and Ollie in his hanging tent. I planted the tomatoes I bought yesterday in the large containers that will be their home this summer, and then mid-afternoon, we all headed to the cottage. Heather, Sam, and Ollie went kayaking and I sat on the dock in the sun and watched them for a while. I also watched the osprey in the nest on Wallers Island and eventually walked back to the cottage to start organizing dinner. After a bit, I walked back down to the dock and found a very wet Sam. At the end of his kayaking expedition, he somehow ended up in the water not far from the dock. He actually enjoyed the spill. But then he realized that his prized Ipod was in his pocket and his world fell apart. What had been a lovely day up to that point suddenly changed. We rushed to the cottage to get the Ipod wiped down and put in a container of uncooked rice. We won’t know for a couple of days whether or not this will save his Ipod. We all tried hard to regroup and about that time Jed and Jonah arrived from their drive home from Maine. I feel so bad for Sam. He struggled, but eventually he was able to enjoy the rest of the evening. I suggested that Heather take a quick trip home with Jed to show him the things she accomplished this weekend, and while they were gone, I let the boys have a water battle before cleaning up for dinner. Evidently, blasting your brothers with water solves all the world’s problems! We had a delightful dinner together to end our Memorial Day weekend. The high temperature for tomorrow is forecast to be 20 degrees cooler than today, so I guess our little slice of early summer is over. But it was wonderful while it lasted.

2019 Life Logs, Day 146: Enjoying a Beautiful Day

2019 Life Logs, Day 146: Enjoying a Beautiful Day
Date: Sunday, May 26, 2019
Weather: Mostly Sunny; High 72, Low 58 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA

Today was the second day in a row that could convince me that it is finally spring and that summer is right around the corner. It was deliciously sunny and warm, a repeat of yesterday. Ollie and I had a lovely morning together and I realized that he has the right name. He is Oliver, but his nickname is Ollie—my mother’s name. And in my family, Ollie’n around was a familiar phrase. My mother was famous for finding every way in the world to not get something done. And this morning, Ollie was Ollie’n around. But I just let that play out as he was as happy as a little boy can be. At his request, we played chess while eating a late breakfast. He eventually got dressed and went out to continue his Farmer Ollie job of using his little battery-operated tractor to deliver bricks to my house from Shirley’s across the drive-way. He got the job done, but he spent an enormous amount of time just driving in circles. He was Ollie’n around, but a little boy should have the time to do this, so I just let him drive in circles. When I thought it was time to take him home, he decided that he really needed to kayak for his first time this season. And so he did. I sat on the dock and watched him as he paddled out toward Wallers Island. It is close enough that I could hear him call my name if he needed help, but usually Sam is out there with him, so this solo ride made me a bit nervous. I know he loves to try and kayak in the narrow cut through the island, and that is what he tried today. I couldn’t see him, but I could his orange-tipped paddle. As I suspected, he made it half-way through the cut and then started going backwards as he had gone aground. What I didn’t know is that when he got stuck, he simply stood up and turned his body around so that he could paddle his way out. When he got back to the dock, he was beaming with pride because people in the yard close to the cut had congratulated him on his ingenuity. I have to admit that I’m not sure I would have thought of doing that. Once I convinced him that it was time to head home, he announced that he needed to drive that tractor in a few more circles before we put it in the car headed home. It was almost 1 o’clock when we got there. I dropped Ollie off and then headed into Falmouth to buy some organic tomato plants for Heather. There is only one source of fully organic plants in Falmouth and it was closed . . . on Memorial Day Weekend. The woman who grows these plants is named Jenny and to be closed on this prime garden planting day on Cape Cod led me to believe that she has either sold out all of her plants for this year or some sudden personal issue came up. Whatever, I was now on a quest to find tomato plants that have not been sprayed with herbicides or pesticides. I went to a nursery that I thought would have the closest thing to certified organic plants and they did. BUT the place was crazy busy. I had not had lunch, so I decided to return to Heather’s, have lunch, and check with her as to whether these mostly organic plants would be okay before fending my way through the frenzy of people. After a lunch break, I was ready to go back into the fray. I took Heather’s van as Sam and Ollie advertising car washes and my car definitely needed a good cleaning. Heather was having neighbors over dinner and needed somethings from the grocery store, so I volunteered to do the food shopping while out to get the tomato plants. I accomplished my mission, but by the time I got back, I certainly didn’t have time to do any planting. Maybe tomorrow. Heather invited me to stay for dinner, which I did. I really enjoyed the dinner and the conversation with Heather’s neighbors, Jean Harper and Dan Hennen. Tomorrow morning begins with a Falmouth Memorial Day Parade and ceremony before we can get back to gardening. Hopefully by tomorrow evening, we will have most of Heather’s garden planted and mine as well. If not, I can finish up on Tuesday. On Wednesday morning, I head to Nyack, New York, to spend a couple of days with my friend Lynne Kirwin. She is moving from Nyack to Michigan the first of June, so I want to have one farewell visit. Michigan seems so far away, but I know we will find ways to continue seeing each other.

2019 Life Logs, Day 145: Ollie Sleepover

2019 Life Logs, Day 145: Ollie Sleepover
Date: Saturday, May 25, 2019
Weather: Mostly Sunny; High 72, Low 55 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA

Ollie is spending the night with me tonight. I always love having him here for a sleepover, but there is usually one or both brothers with him. So, I think he was feeling a little lonesome tonight and decided he wanted to sleep with me in my bed. Jed is in Maine with Jonah and Heather is probably just now driving home from Boston with Sam and two of his friends. They went to a Revs game tonight. The Revelations are Boston’s professional soccer team. For Christmas, each boy got tickets to a Revs game with one parent and a friend or two, and tonight was Sam’s night. Heather worked outside all day today, as did I, and if she feels anything like I do, the drive home from Boston at this late hour will be challenging. It was great to be able to be outside today, but I am worn out. I arrived at Heather’s at 8 am so she could go for a run. The June Jog is in two weeks and the miserable weather we have been experiencing has not been great training weather. So, she took advantage of the sunshine this morning. We then divided up the chores for the day and got to work. Sam had a Scout meeting this morning, Ollie worked on cutting the grass in the morning and then washed the van in the afternoon, Heather cut the boards for making another deep bed and worked on other gardening projects, and I swept the van to get it ready for the trip to Boston this evening, got the boys’ room ready for Sam’s friends to spend the night, worked on laundry, went to the nursery to buy some plants, and went to my house to get some of the plants I have been growing for Heather’s garden. Heather transplanted strawberries from the main garden to a raised bed in the front yard and I finished planting the raised bed just off their deck and planted one large container with Aurora peppers that I started from seed. I brought Ollie’s little tractor to my house at the end of the day, and he made a few trips bringing bricks from Shirley’s concrete patio over here to use as garden edging. He will finish that job in the morning as this day just wasn’t long enough. That’s why there is a tomorrow.