by Judy Handley | Mar 21, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 79: Welcome Spring
Date: Monday, March 20, 2017
Weather: Sunny; High 37, Low 32 degrees F
Location: At Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
Spring made her entrance today, but as Ollie points out, tomorrow (his birthday) will be the first full day of spring. He is very possessive of that fact. Yet, we did officially welcome spring today and the weather cooperated. Well, the high temp was still in the 30’s, but with no wind and full sunshine, it felt much warmer . . . almost like spring. And on this special day, I want to say happy birthday to the other Goldpebble grandmother, Grammy Marti. Sure hope you had a wonderful day.
I spent the morning with Jonah who had to stay home from school due to a fever and a cough. Mid-way through the morning, we decided to watch a video. I wanted to see Moana, but Jonah wanted to see one of his favorites, Hook, starring Robin Williams and Julia Roberts. He had seen it before, but I hadn’t. And I loved it. After the movie, we continued to spend a quiet morning, then in the early afternoon Heather and Ollie came home. Heather has the same thing as Jonah and was feeling just awful, but Ollie was feeling fine. He just wanted to come home to get ready to celebrate his birthday tomorrow. Can’t believe he is going to be five years old
by Judy Handley | Mar 19, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 78: Five Years Ago Today
Date: Sunday, March 19, 2017
Weather: Overcast, Cold, and Very Windy; High 39, Low 32 degrees F
Location: At Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
Google Photos did it again today. When I got up and checked my phone, there was a beautiful display of photos from this day five years ago. My log for that day was named, “Looks Like, Feels Like, Must Be . . . Spring.” That certainly wasn’t the case today. The temp never got out of the 30’s and we had no sun and even a few snow flurries in the afternoon. But as Google reminded me, five years ago on this day, it was 60 degrees and after Mark’s third ever chemo treatment, Heather, Sam, and Jonah joined us for a walk on the beach. Well, the adults walked but Sam and Jonah dug and played and danced in the sand.

07 Near the Water’s Edge

02 Too Cute

05 Jonah Sliding in the Sand

04 Jonah and Sam Doing the Sand Dance
Heather also enrolled Sam in kindergarten that day and Ollie’s birth was just 48 hours away. Today I took a look at all three boys and realized just how fast they are growing up.
I was up bright and early this morning as an electrician was arriving from Boston at 8 am to work on the electrical panel in my bedroom closet. The panel in that closet has nothing to do with my apartment. The breakers in that panel are for electricity on the docks and for the smaller apartments in this complex that have electric heat. Ed the maintenance guy here and the electrician who drove down from Boston were in and out of the apartment for an hour or two and I used that as an excuse to sit in the living room and finish the book I have been reading. It is a beautifully written book, but the last couple of chapters made me so sad that I could hardly read for the tears. I was glad Ed and the electrician were gone by the time I got to those chapters! The book is called “The Nightingale” by Kristin Hannah. It takes place in France during World War II and it will certainly keep your attention. Thanks to my friend Leslie for loaning me the book. A great read.
Tomorrow will be another early day. Jonah came home from Wellfleet with a bad cough and will not be going to school tomorrow, barring a miracle. So I will head over to spend the day with Jonah.
by Judy Handley | Mar 18, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 77: Lucky Oma
Date: Saturday, March 18, 2017
Weather: Chunny (chilly + sunny); High 41, Low 24 degrees F
Location: At Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
I am the grandmother of the Fabulous Five which makes me a very lucky Oma. And what happened this week is one example of that. Yesterday, on St. Patrick’s Day, I got a belated birthday gift from Ziggy and Coco. It was a beautiful pair of green sea glass earrings. Today I had a Skype video call with them and found out that Ziggy and Coco pooled their savings and went off on their own at the Rincon market and bought these earrings for me for my birthday. Justin and Jo didn’t know they were doing it. And Ziggy used his bargaining skills to get a good deal. I watched him do this while I was there visiting. He went off with $8 he had earned and returned with a $40 hat. So hopefully he got an equally good deal on the earrings. And earlier in the week, I was given another belated birthday present of a pair of wooden gear earrings that the Goldpebbles found at the local children’s bookstore. And the gears actually work! My grandchildren obviously know what I love. Indeed, I am a very lucky Oma.
Today I went to the gym for a Zumba class to help get myself back in the groove. I’ve been away for so long that I am having trouble settling into any kind of routine, but I think going to the gym will help. After the gym, I headed to Heather’s and took Sam to his 12:30 pm soccer practice while Heather got things ready for their family overnight at the Audubon in Wellfleet. Then I had a quiet Saturday evening at home alone.
The weather today was a repeat of the past few days—a little on the chilly side but very sunny. I’ve started calling it ‘chuuny’ weather (combination of chilly and sunny)—not quite spring, but not full blown winter. Of course, tomorrow is forecast to bring us more wintry weather with some snow, but at this point it looks like we won’t get much. Monday brings the first day of spring, but the forecast for here is just more of the same ‘not quite spring’ weather.
by Judy Handley | Mar 16, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 75: Lunch with Friends
Date: Thursday, March 16, 2017
Weather: Continued Cold; High 36, Low 22 degrees F
Location: At Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
The cold continues, but at least the sun shines. Early this morning, I drove to Heather’s to take Sam to his pre-school activity and then returned to Heather’s to drive Ollie to Woods Hole. I then returned home and hung out until 1:15 when I headed downtown to have lunch with friends Olivia and Jane. We met at Liam Maguire’s Irish Pub on Main Street and hoped to have a good Irish stew on this day before St. Patrick’s Day. But unfortunately, Irish stew is only available on St. Patrick’s Day. Regardless, we enjoyed lunch and the change of being together to catch up on what has been happening in our lives for the past few weeks when all of us were traveling. After our late lunch, I traveled back to Woods Hole to pick up Ollie to take him home.
Tomorrow I meet with a realtor to tour a few homes with in-law apartments. Neither Heather and Jed, nor myself, are ready to buy such a property, but I am just scouting out what is available. I’ll end that activity in the early afternoon to pick Ollie up early from preschool. He wants to spend the afternoon playing at “Oma’s house’, so we will do that. When I return him home in the late afternoon, he will be going with Heather, Sam, and Jonah to a dance at the elementary school. Always something happening in the Goldstone world.
by Judy Handley | Mar 15, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 74: Recovering from the ‘Storm’
Date: Wednesday, March 15, 2017
Weather: Sunny, Windy, Continued Cold; High 32, Low 21 degrees F
Location: Back Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
It was still very windy and chilly today, but the sunshine helped us to recover from yesterday’s winter storm. Heather had to head to work early and I did my best to get the three boys ready for school on time. It was Ollie that caused a little problem with that. Heather tried to wake him to say goodbye before she left, but he was sound asleep and didn’t respond. Later I sent Sam up to try and wake him, and he was unsuccessful as well. When I went upstairs, he was awake but was sad because mommy wasn’t home and was not going to get out of bed. I let Sam work with him and finally Sam’s trail of chocolate Teddy Grahams got him up. And about that time Heather called to talk to him and that made him very happy. All of this took time, however, and I barely got Sam and Jonah delivered to school on time. But all is well that ends well, and three happy boys were delivered to school this morning. Whew!
I returned to pick Sam up from school and Heather picked up Ollie and then Jonah who had an after-school activity. Heather invited me to stay for dinner, enticing me with fresh lemon sole and Brussels sprouts, so how could I refuse? I stayed for dinner and storytime and then headed home as I need to return early in the morning to take Sam to school for an early morning activity. Heather heads to Boston tomorrow morning, so after I deliver Sam, I will then take Jonah to school at the normal time and drive Ollie to Woods Hole. I am going to have a late lunch with friends Jane and Olivia at a local Irish pub to have a pre-St. Patrick’s Day celebration and will then head back to Woods Hole to pick up Ollie. Heather has arranged for after school play dates for Sam and Jonah. She will pick them up on her way home from Boston and we’ll all gather by dinner time. Busy schedule.
2017 Life Logs, Day 74: Recovering from the ‘Storm’
Date: Wednesday, March 15, 2017
Weather: Sunny, Windy, Continued Cold; High 32, Low 21 degrees F
Location: Back Home in the The Studio, Falmouth, MA
It was still very windy and chilly today, but the sunshine helped us to recover from yesterday’s winter storm. Heather had to head to work early and I did my best to get the three boys ready for school on time. It was Ollie that caused a little problem with that. Heather tried to wake him to say goodbye before she left, but he was sound asleep and didn’t respond. Later I sent Sam up to try and wake him, and he was unsuccessful as well. When I went upstairs, he was awake but was sad because mommy wasn’t home and was not going to get out of bed. I let Sam work with him and finally Sam’s trail of chocolate Teddy Grahams got him up. And about that time Heather called to talk to him and that made him very happy. All of this took time, however, and I barely got Sam and Jonah delivered to school on time. But all is well that ends well, and three happy boys were delivered to school this morning. Whew!
I returned to pick Sam up from school and Heather picked up Ollie and then Jonah who had an after-school activity. Heather invited me to stay for dinner, enticing me with fresh lemon sole and Brussels sprouts, so how could I refuse? I stayed for dinner and storytime and then headed home as I need to return early in the morning to take Sam to school for an early morning activity. Heather heads to Boston tomorrow morning, so after I deliver Sam, I will then take Jonah to school at the normal time and drive Ollie to Woods Hole. I am going to have a late lunch with friends Jane and Olivia at a local Irish pub to have a pre-St. Patrick’s Day celebration and will then head back to Woods Hole to pick up Ollie. Heather has arranged for after school play dates for Sam and Jonah. She will pick them up on her way home from Boston and we’ll all gather by dinner time. Busy schedule.
by Judy Handley | Mar 14, 2017 | 2017 Life Logs |
2017 Life Logs, Day 73: More Rain Than Snow
Date: Tuesday, March 14, 2017
Weather: Snow, Pouring Rain, Heavy Winds; High 46, Low 24 degrees F
Location: At Home with Heather and Boys, East Falmouth, MA
Today’s big storm took an interesting twist here on the Cape. We got snow early but it was a wet snow. Then the temperature started rising and we got pouring rain, and I do mean pouring, for three to four hours. As the rain increased, so did the wind. At one point we had 50 to 60 mile per hour winds that have resulted in power outages in many areas. I am spending the night with Heather and boys because Heather has to head to work very early and I will deliver the kids to school. I could have driven over in the morning, but earlier today we didn’t know what the roads might be like in the morning and it seemed safer to just stay here. And lucky for us, we have not had a power outage. I got a text message on my phone from the electric company telling me the power is out at my apartment. Glad I’m here and not there.
There was no school here today and around noon I got a call from Heather inviting me to join her and the boys for lunch at the British Beer Company not far from my apartment. Heather and next door neighbor Melissa decided they needed to get the kids out of the house and with the pouring rain, a restaurant sounded like a good idea. So we all braved the rain and wind to meet for lunch. The BBC is across the street from the beach and the wind was blowing so hard from the water that I was almost knocked down when I got out of the car.
By the time I got home, I had to put my jacket and pants in the dryer as they were soaked. But later in the afternoon when I headed to Heather’s to spend the night, the rain was down to a drizzle. Tonight I still hear the wind roaring outside from time to time, but nothing like earlier today. I was hoping this storm would be the last of the winter, but the forecast says we are going to get snow again on Saturday and Sunday. And the first day of spring on Monday will have a high temp in the 30’s. Doesn’t sound like spring to me!