by Judy Handley | Jun 4, 2019 | 2019 Life Logs |
2019 Life Logs, Day 155: African American Heritage Trail Tour on MV
Date: Tuesday, June 4, 2019
Weather: Sunny and Breezy; High 67 (MV), Low 47 degrees
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA





Martha’s Vineyard (MV) has a population that goes from 17,000 during the winter to 200,000 by August. There are many reasons that it is such a popular vacation destination, but one of those reasons is the beauty . . . the Aquinnah Cliffs (formerly known as Gay Head), peaceful countryside, dramatic ocean views. I have seen all of those things before, but today I went there to do a tour of the African American Heritage Trail. The markers on the trail are just simple plaques, but the stories behind those plaques are fantastic. It all started when a woman from Ireland, Elaine Cawley Weintraub, was a high school teacher on the island and saw a need to give African American students a sense of their history from the days of slavery to the present. Twenty-seven Falmouth Newcomers made the trip to Martha’s Vineyard today for this tour. We got off the ferry and piled into three mini-vans with three different tour guides. Elaine Cawley Weintraub was one guide, but the van I got into had a Christie Vanderhoop as our guide. Christie is part African American and part Native American. Her husband is also both African American and Native American and he is the post master at the Chilmark Post Office on the island. Chilmark is part of the island where the ‘rich’ people live. It is where the Kennedy property is located, where Carly Simon lives, where John Belushi lived and where he is buried, where Alan Dershowitz lives during the summer, and on and on. As Christie said today, everyone has to go to the post office, so her husband knows all of these people and as a result, he and Christie often get invited to special affairs with the rich and famous. So not only was she knowledgeable about the Heritage Trail, she added all sorts of interesting tidbits about the island and its people. It was a five-hour tour and I certainly came away knowing more about Martha’s Vineyard than I had anticipated learning. African Americans I had never heard of were honored, as well as more familiar people like Adam Clayton Powell, Jr. and Senator Edward Brooke, politicians from the 20th century, and the Obamas who vacationed their while in the White House. The Kennedys and the Clintons, neither African American nor Native American, also hold special significance to those groups on the island as the Kennedys have owned land there for years and the Clintons also vacationed there while in the White House. It was a fantastic tour, but the highlight of my day was at the end of the day when we when visited the Aquinnah Cliffs overlook. I was last there with Mark in July of 2016 and the photo of us has been the photo on my blog site since that time. I have never updated. But today I had a fellow Newcomer take a photo of me in the exact location where Mark and I stood almost three years ago and that will become the updated photo for the blog site. It is time to update from ‘we’ to ‘me’, and I feel good that the photo keeps the same background, same connection. I think that would make Mark smile.
by Judy Handley | Jun 3, 2019 | 2019 Life Logs |
2019 Life Logs, Day 154: A Little Gardening
Date: Monday, June 3, 2019
Weather: Sunny and Breezy; High 71, Low 49 degrees
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
It is June 3rd and I am still having difficulty getting motivated to plant the garden beds. Despite my lack of motivation, I did do a little gardening today. I’m also researching drip irrigation systems and this afternoon I went to see Jeanne Harper’s system. Jeanne lives in Heather’s neighborhood and installed a system last year. I watch videos describing how to install a system on YouTube and convince myself this looks easy, but then when I begin to plan out a system for my garden beds, and for Heather’s, I get a little overwhelmed. Jeanne was encouraging saying it is easier than it looks, so once I have all the supplies together AND have the planting done, I’ll get to work on installation. In addition to visiting with Jeanne, I also stopped by Karen Baranowski’s to pick up some rhubarb she brought back from a weekend trip to the Berkshires. She had more than she could use, so I offered to take the extra off her hands. Strawberry rhubarb pie definitely makes the world a better place. I made one yesterday for Heather and Jed. My neighbors Shirley and Doris return for the summer next Monday, so I’ll bake a pie for them as a welcome home gift. I was invited for cocktails at Bruce and Jane Woodin’s at 5 pm, so ended my day there. Bruce and Jane returned this weekend from a vacation in Vancouver and Alaska. They flew to Vancouver and then joined a cruise to Alaska. When they reached Seward, they then took a train to Denali where they enjoyed unusually clear skies and lots of wildlife. I really enjoyed hearing all about the trip.
Tomorrow I am going to travel to Martha’s Vineyard with the Newcomer’s Teacher Group. This requires taking a bus to Woods Hole, a ferry to Martha’s Vineyard, and then getting on a mini-bus that will drive us around the entire island to learn about African-American contributions throughout the history of the island. It makes for a long day, but the weather forecast looks good and I am looking forward to the tour. I’ll end tonight’s log with a bon voyage message for my friend Lynne Kirwin. Lynne leaves Nyack tomorrow morning to relocate in Michigan for the summer and fall. She is from Michigan and most of her family lives there, thus the reason for the move. Her thinking at this point is that she will spend December through March in New Zealand and the rest of the year in Michigan. I will miss having her close by, but as Jane Woodin reminded me this afternoon, “Michigan is lovely place to visit.” Happy travels, Lynne.
by Judy Handley | Jun 2, 2019 | 2019 Life Logs |
2019 Life Logs, Day 153: June Jog
Date: Sunday, June 2, 2019
Weather: Partly Cloudy; High 70, Low 55 degrees
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA






Today was the 2019 East Falmouth June Jog run by the East Falmouth Elementary PTO. The great thing about this race is that it is low key. Some people run or walk 4 miles, others run the 10k, all along the beach and then up Davisville Road to the school. This year all of the Goldstones ran while Oma watched with pride. Sam, Jonah, Jed, and Ollie did the 4-mile walk/run, but Heather ran the 10k (approximately 6 miles). My friend Meghan Hannawalt, the ‘goat lady’, was the first person I knew who came in. In the Goldstone family, Sam came in first, then Jonah, and then Jed and Ollie who did a combo of walking and running and finished strong. Heather was the last Goldstone in and was extremely pleased with her time, the fastest she has ever run. Many Goldstone friends ran, so it was a social event as well as a race. After the official race, there is a Fun Run for the kiddos in grades K through 4. Ollie ran the quarter mile with the first graders and Jonah blew away the fourth-grade half mile race. He got in the lead early and then just kept it up. Sam, his good friend Ethan, both in sixth grade, and a girl in fifth grade, all East Falmouth alumni, talked the organizers into letting them run as well. Like Jonah with the fourth graders, the young lady got the jump on Sam and Ethan and almost lapped them. But they ended up with a freeze pop, the award for running the Fun Run, which made them happy. This is a great event. Everyone is so supportive of all runners, regardless of age. Maybe I should walk it next year. But then there would be no one at the finish line to take photos. Good excuse.
by Judy Handley | Jun 1, 2019 | 2019 Life Logs |
2019 Life Logs, Day 152: Soccer, Tomatoes, Wine
Date: Saturday, June 1, 2019
Weather: Mostly Cloudy; High 69, Low 52 degrees
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
What do soccer, tomatoes, and wine have in common? Nothing that I can think of, but I spent my day watching soccer games, planting tomato plants, and going to a wine tasting on this first day of June 2019. I started my morning at Sam’s soccer game. It was still the first half and Sam’s team was trailing by one goal. Then, all of a sudden, there was a loud verbal battle between one of the referees and a father of one of the players on Sam’s team. I have been to many soccer games in the past few years, but I have never experienced anything like this. Evidently the father thought the call by the referee was unfair and he verbally expressed that. The ref on the field then yelled at the father that he could either shut up or leave. This same father has been at all of the games that I have attended over the years, and as far as I remember, he has never commented on a call before. But he would not back down this morning and the referee demanded he leave. It was awful to watch this from the sidelines and it was even worse for the boys on the field to watch it play out. Then when the father left the field and the game resumed, there was another perceived bad call and the normally mild-mannered assistant coach yelled something that caused the referee to stop game again to tell him that if made another comment he was out as well. There was another comment by the assistant coach and he was told to leave the field. We were all in shock. Never has there been any incident like this at any of our games and it certainly took the fun out of the morning. As one parent commented, the rest of this game felt like the longest in history. But it did finally end and Heather, Ollie, and I headed on to Jonah’s game at a field in a different part of town. Jonah’s team won handily. Jonah’s closet goal shot hit the goal bar and was deflected, but his good friend Luke made a couple of goals which made Jonah a happy soccer player. After the game, we all dispersed in different directions. I went to Heather and Jed’s to plant some tomato plants and then I headed home for lunch. I had planned to go to the gym to ride the stationary bike, but I opted for an afternoon nap and a mile-long walk in the neighborhood. I never take naps, but I was tired and enjoyed the down time. Then I headed to a Newcomer’s Wine Tasting event at the Cape Cod Vineyard that is only a couple of miles from here. This should have been a happy evening, but glyphosate interfered. If you don’t know what glyphosate is, it is one of the main components in Round Up, Monsanto’s (now Bayer’s) popular weed killer that I personally believe is one of the main causes of the healthy crises we are experiencing in this country. This weed killer is sprayed with abandon on our food, grapes included—especially in California. I was hoping that the Cape Cod Vineyard wine might be sans glyphosate, but tonight I found out that they use California grapes in all of their wines. Ugh. Still it was a lovely evening, despite my hope for a glyphosate-free wine being dashed.
by Judy Handley | May 31, 2019 | Cape Cod, USA |
2019 Life Logs, Day 151: From Nyack, NY to Dedham, MA and Then Home
Date: Friday, May 31, 2019
Weather: Partly Sunny; High 77, Low 58 degrees F
Location: Back Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
My visit with Lynne was wonderful, but this morning it was time to say my farewells and head to Boston.
I got across the Tappan Zee Bridge with no problem, but then my GPS headed me in what I thought was the wrong direction. Then five miles later, it had me turn around and head back the same five miles. I carefully set my GPS before leaving Lynne’s, but I struggled with it all the way to Hartford, Connecticut. When I get a chance, I’m going to retrace the trip to see what happened, but even with the confusion, I arrived at Alan and Helaine’s new home in Dedham, near Boston, by 12:45 pm.


They live in a Hebrew senior life center called Newbridge on the Charles. It is known as one of the most successful senior living centers in the country and is celebrating ten years of success this year. It is associated with the Harvard Medical School, has a variety of living situations—cottages, villas, apartments, independent living, assisted living, and continuing care. It has a K-8 school on the grounds, a fantastic central building that has restaurants, a state-of-the-art gym, an inside pool, a theater, meeting rooms, and an auditorium. And the Charles River runs through the grounds with nature walking paths alongside it. In fact, Helaine and I took off to walk on those paths having no idea where they headed. We enjoyed the walk and eventually we found our way back home. There’s even an area on the campus where residents can claim a raised bed to plant. I was quite impressed with what I will call the village and, in particular, I was impressed with Alan and Helaine’s cottage. Compared to my little cottage, it felt HUGE. It has vaulted ceilings and lots of tall windows making it light and airy. And most importantly, both Alan and Helaine already love their cottage and their new life at Newbridge. We had lunch in one of the restaurants and while there saw many people that Alan and Helaine have met. Everyone is friendly and the staff helpful. It is easy to see why Newbridge has been so successful. It was 5 o’clock on a Friday afternoon when I was ready to leave, not the best time to head south to Cape Cod, so I drove through Dedham to a shopping area that had both a Whole Foods and a Costco and did a little shopping while waiting for the rush hour traffic to calm down. From my little explore of the town, it seems it has unlimited shopping opportunities. In the future, I’ll drive to Dedham for my off-Cape shopping trips and include a visit with Alan and Helaine.