by Judy Handley | Mar 16, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 75: Tribute to Falmouth
Date: Wednesday, March 16, 2022
Weather: Mostly Sunny; High 52, Low 38 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
My day, from beginning to end, was spent having a love affair with the town of Falmouth. I’ll start in reverse order. Tonight, I went to All Bands Night with Heather and family, the first one since March of 2019 due to Covid. Sam was a drummer in the 6th grade jazz band the last time we went. Now he is in high school. It was wonderful to be with people celebrating young musicians once again. All Bands night is when all of the public school bands come together in the high school auditorium to perform—the 5th grade band, the 6th grade band, the middle school band, the high school band, the middle school jazz band, and the high school jazz band. Sam chose soccer over band this year (you can only participate in one or the other), and Ollie is too young to participate, so this was Jonah’s night to, shine and he did it with style.
He plays the trombone in the middle school band and plays bass in the middle school jazz band. So proud of him! Falmouth is a beautiful small town and seeing the entire floor of the high school gymnasium filled with young musicians makes your heart sing. The high school band played a medley of songs from West Side Story which was so good and ended with ‘Somewhere’. “There’s a place for us. A time and place for us. Hold my hand and we’re halfway there. Hold my hand and I’ll take you there. Someday, somehow, somewhere.” When you open my high school annual, the words to that song fill the entire first page. It was our class song in 1965. This definitely brought a tear to my eye. The the evening ended with all of the bands together playing ‘America the Beautiful’ written by Falmouth’s own Katherine Lee Bates. Another tearjerker, plus an amazing feat getting all of the those band students playing that together after only an hour of practice just prior to the presentation.
I started my day by attending a Newcomers/Encore general meeting focusing on the ‘green’ beauty of Falmouth—the green open spaces preserved in our town, a bit of Irish music from the Land of Green, and a presentation by a local artist who uses the preserved green spaces in our town as the settings for her paintings. I was fascinated with the Irish harp music and the history of the harp interspersed with the music. The paintings were all of places in town I know well and enjoy every summer with the Goldpebbles or on walks with Shadow. And the success of The 300 Committee Land Trust, “a non-profit organization of people dedicated to preserving and protecting natural places in Falmouth for all of us, now and forever” is impressive. As a result of their work, more than 2,400 acres of land in Falmouth is now permanently protected. It made me feel immensely proud to sit and listen to that presentation. The organization has worked hard to protect the many places in Falmouth that I just take for granted. I now have a much greater appreciation. And while I am feeling so proud of things, I must share a post I read on Justin’s Facebook page tonight. There was a photo of Coco “ruling the ball” on the soccer field. 
Go, Coco.
Last night I wrote about wrestling with making reservations for my trip to visit my sister and wrestling with my computer. Then just before I went to bed, I won one round with my computer. I finally figured out why I wasn’t receiving my emails. One step at a time, I’ll get these issues worked out.
by Judy Handley | Mar 15, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 74: Wrestling
Date: Tuesday, March 15, 2022
Weather: Partly Sunny; High 53, Low 37 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
I promised myself to take the day off today, but I still had to wrestle with reservation issues for my trip next week to see my sister and with my computer issues. I made progress on the trip reservations, but not with my computer. The highlight of my day was a hike with friend Olga and Shadow.
We did the 2.8 mile Breivogel Ponds to Shallow Ponds Woodlands trail. Tomorrow I will continue my wrestling and hope to win a couple of matches!
by Judy Handley | Mar 14, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 73: The Wonders of Having Adult Children
Date: Monday, March 14, 2022
Weather: Partly Sunny, Still Windy, Warmer; High 53, Low 40 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
I am constantly amazed and in a state of ‘wonderment’ as I watch my adult children parenting while contributing to this world we all live in. Each makes different contributions, but one is just as amazing to me as the other. Monday evenings are a busy, busy for the Goldstones. Jonah and Ollie have music lessons at 5:10 pm, 20 minutes from home. Then Ollie is driven home quickly so he can go to Cub Scouts where Jed is the Cub Master. Then Sam has music lessons at 5:40 pm, again 20 minutes from home, and then has to be driven another 20 minutes to soccer practice. Once a month, and it was tonight, Heather has a 7 pm PTO middle school PTO meeting where she plays an active role. And Heather and Jed, along with my help on Monday nights, do all of this after demanding days at work. Tonight, I was on ‘Sam duty’ while Heather took Justin and Ollie to music lessons. When we all got back to Heather and Jed’s at 8 pm, Heather spent an hour helping me work on a computer issue I have been struggling with for over a week while also making a chocolate pudding pie to celebrate Pi Day.
Then when I got home, I saw on Facebook that Silvermouse, Justin and Jo’s electronic music ‘group’ (it is just the two of them), was featured on Ditto’s Hot List on Spotify.
I don’t know if that is a big or little deal, but I know how happy it makes Justin to be able to continue his love of music with Jo, in addition to his new fulltime position with the Monroe Institute while keeping his own business alive; and how happy it makes Jo to be Justin’s Silvermouse partner, in addition to her part-time teaching duties, and while pursuing the development of her part-time business of making natural beauty products.
I know my life must have been a little like this when Heather and Justin were the ages of my grandchildren, but I find all of this head-spinning. Watching Heather, Jed, Justin, and Jo being full-time parents, while building careers, and being so involved in other activities at the same time constantly amazes me. I am so proud of them.
Much of my day was spent continuing to plan and make reservations for my trip to North Carolina next week and finalizing plans for a Newcomers field trip to Boston that I am leading next Tuesday. My last Beta reader picked up her copy of The Voyage of Windbird today, so now I just have to wait for feedback on book one while I begin writing book two. But tomorrow . . . I am going to do nothing. I am exhausted from just writing about how busy my kids are. I am going to rest for them tomorrow!
by Judy Handley | Mar 13, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 72: Taking Care of Business
Date: Sunday, March 13, 2022
Weather: Snow Overnight, Partly Sunny & Windy Today; High 36, Low 30 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Last night after sending out my log, I took Shadow outside for his last bathroom break of the day. We walked out the door and were surprised by blowing snow. The wind was blowing from the west and the entire driver’s side of my car was plastered. There wasn’t much on the ground, just a white dusting, but the snowflakes were large and so sparkly. I would never have gotten to enjoy if I didn’t have Shadow. Going out with him at all times of the day and night can sometimes be a burden, but sometimes it is just so beautiful. Last night I felt very lucky to bear that burden.
For the past couple of months, I have been focused on finishing my book, and as a result I have ignored taking care of business. So, today, I started on the ‘must do’ list. First, I ordered some things I will need for gardening. I then took a walk with Shadow and friend Olga. After lunch, I made a call to Priceline. In January of 2020, I made a reservation for a flight to Lexington, Kentucky, to go to a Willie Nelson concert in April. Then Covid happened and the concert and flight were cancelled. I had until March 31, 2022, to rebook (so I thought), and today was the day I chose to do that. I wanted to change the destination to Charlotte, North Carolina, to go visit my sister. When I called, an automated voice told me the wait time was too long and that someone would call me back. About thirty minutes later, I got a call. It took an enormously long time for the young woman to check everything to make sure the flight was still valid, and that the destination could be changed. It was okay and just as she started booking the new flight, the call dropped. Ugh. I had to start all over, wait for a call back, wait for another young woman to check everything, and finally at 4:55 pm she made the new reservation. I was wrong about one thing. I had to make the flight before March 31, not just make the reservation. And it had to be on United Airline which does not have direct flights from Boston to Charlotte. So, I am going to Charlotte via Newark on the 24th of March for five days. I hung up, tired of spending so many hours on one task, but glad that it was done . . . until I got the follow-up email. It had the reservation set for April 24 to April 27, not March 24 to March 29, to Charlotte from Boston but with a return flight from Lexington, Kentucky. Wrong dates, wrong airport. I had to call once again, wait for another call back, and finally I think it is all set. And it only took four hours!!! That was my day.
by Judy Handley | Mar 12, 2022 | 2022 Life Logs |
2022 Life Logs, Day 71: Switching Gears
Date: Saturday, March 12, 2022
Weather: Overcast, Rainy, Windy; High 50, Low 21 degrees F
Location: At Home in The Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
I have completed writing book one of The Voyage of Windbird, I have completed my most recent jigsaw puzzle, I have read next month’s book club book plus the two books written by my seasonal neighbor from New York. It is a perfect time to switch gears. But just as in a car, you don’t want to change gears when you are going at high speed, so I slowed down a bit today.
Tonight, we spring forward to Daylight Savings Time, so I am taking this as a sign that it is time to put my energy into spring activities. Tonight, I planted a few more seeds. Tomorrow morning, I will get out Johnny’s Seed Catalog and order those seeds and things I will need for spring gardening. The weather is not really cooperating with my plan, but by Monday it looks like things might warm up for a few days. Heather always tries to plant peas on St. Patrick’s Day, and I have decided to do the same. I’ll take advantage of the warmer weather arriving on Monday to get ready for that.
He plays the trombone in the middle school band and plays bass in the middle school jazz band. So proud of him! Falmouth is a beautiful small town and seeing the entire floor of the high school gymnasium filled with young musicians makes your heart sing. The high school band played a medley of songs from West Side Story which was so good and ended with ‘Somewhere’. “There’s a place for us. A time and place for us. Hold my hand and we’re halfway there. Hold my hand and I’ll take you there. Someday, somehow, somewhere.” When you open my high school annual, the words to that song fill the entire first page. It was our class song in 1965. This definitely brought a tear to my eye. The the evening ended with all of the bands together playing ‘America the Beautiful’ written by Falmouth’s own Katherine Lee Bates. Another tearjerker, plus an amazing feat getting all of the those band students playing that together after only an hour of practice just prior to the presentation.
Go, Coco. 
