by Judy Handley | Jun 11, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 162: Visit with Orsi Gorgenyi and Her Family
Date: Sunday, June 11, 2023
Weather: Sunny and Warm: High 72, Low 58 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Today I drove to Concord, New Hampshire, to meet up with Orsi Görgényi and her family who traveled here from Hungary for Orsi’s 30th high school anniversary.
I have written in other logs that we were Orsi’s home stay family when she was at St. Paul’s School.
I last saw Orsi five years ago. But this is the first time her husband, George, and their twins, Lisa and Peter, have been to this country. The twins are 13 years old and are both tall like their mom and dad. We had a delightful visit and then I headed home and they headed to Acadia in Maine. From there, they will return to Boston and on to New York City before flying home. I find it totally unbelievable that it has been thirty years since Heather and Orsi were in high school together. The years pass so quickly.
by Judy Handley | Jun 10, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 161: Everything and Nothing
Date: Saturday, June 10, 2023
Weather: Partly Cloudy: High 65, Low 54 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Thirty years ago on the first weekend in June, my daughter graduated high school from St. Paul’s School in Concord, NH. Orsi Gorgenyi also graduated. Orsi was a student from Hungary and even though she lived at St. Paul’s, we were her home support family—her home away from home. This weekend is Anniversary Weekend at St. Paul’s and Orsi and her husband and two children came for the celebration. Heather couldn’t attend this year as today she attended an all-day training program designed to introduce new and aspiring school committee members. Before Heather got elected to the School Committee, we had hoped to get the two families together. But that just was not meant to be. It has been a busier than usual few weeks around here. So, I am driving alone to Concord early in the morning to have breakfast with Orsi and her family. They were willing to drive here, but in the end, it seemed so much easier for me to do the driving. It will take most of the day, but I am really looking forward to meeting Orsi’s husband and children.
Today was an everything and nothing day for me. I did a little bit of everything but felt like I got nothing done. I did get the cottage ready for a 1 pm realtor’s showing despite all the boxes sitting all about. I headed into town with Shadow to work in the garden at the new house, but it started pouring rain. I went to the laundromat instead and then just gave up and came home to do some organizing in the basement. I guess I really got some things done. It just doesn’t look like it. I’ll start again on Monday morning and hope it is a more productive day.
by Judy Handley | Jun 9, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 160: More Moving Progress
Date: Friday, June 9, 2023
Weather: Partly Cloudy: High 67, Low 51 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
From now until moving day, I hope to make just a little more progress each day. Today was different from yesterday. Yesterday Christina and I got over 40 boxes packed. Today I only got a couple of boxes packed, but Karen Baranowski came over and she helped me get all of the food the food in my pantry into plastic storage boxes that can be packed up quickly. And we started getting the spices out of the drawer in kitchen and into a plastic box. The box was not big enough and that led to a trip to Walmart to get additional plastic storage boxes. She also helped me move things into my dresser that will be in the dining room in the new house as storage for table cloths and placemats. The clothes that were in that dresser went into a bureau in the guest bedroom that will be in my bedroom in the new house. Progress was made.
In the afternoon, I did the needed shopping in town and did a little more work on the drip irrigation in the garden at the new house. I am hoping to focus on that again tomorrow afternoon. I went to pick up Sam for rowing practice but had missed a text from him saying he had decided not to go today. That added a few hours to my afternoon to do even more move-oriented shopping and time to come home and play outside with Shadow. When we came inside, we actually took a little power nap together on the sofa.
While I was in town, I got a call from Justin. I sat in the Walmart parking lot talking to him for quite some time. I had read in the New York Times earlier this week that Puerto Rico is facing record breaking high temperatures. The combination of normally hot and humid summer weather being impacted by climate change is resulting in temperatures that, this week, made it feel like 125 degrees F. Justin verified that the reports are correct. It has been very hot. Work must go on, but Justin and Jo have taken time to get the kids to the water for daily cool downs. Today they went to a local waterfall
and earlier in the week I got photos of them at the beach.
Hopefully the intense heat of this week cools down a bit. It was great to talk to Justin and be brought up to date on their lives these days. They are not going to England this summer but they are going for a little 5-day vacation to Culebra for Jo’s birthday later this month.
by Judy Handley | Jun 8, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 159: Jolted into Reality
Date: Thursday, June 8, 2023
Weather: Partly Cloudy: High 66, Low 51 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
Yes. I knew before today that I am moving in three weeks. But not until I actually started packing today was I jolted into what that reality means. Moving is never easy, but since I have moved twice in the past seven years, it seems this should relatively easy. Today was a lot of work, but it was not difficult. Friend Christina Brodie spent most of the day with me and she is fantastic packer. Thank you, Christina. But it is when I start in on the plastic bins in the basement that it will get difficult. Deciding what can be thrown away, given away, or sold is the hard part. Today we packed 44 boxes of books and kitchen items.
There are more boxes than normal because I bought small 12 x 10 inch boxes so I can handle the weight. A regular small moving box full of books is just too heavy for me to move if I ever want my back to heal. So, my summary of day one is that is was not hard, just overwhelming. Karen Baranowski is coming over tomorrow morning to help for a couple of hours. Then I will put the move on the back burner for a few days while I get the garden at the new house under control. Once that is done, I can focus my full attention on the move. But things are moving along.
I talked to my friend Lynne Kirwin tonight. She arrived in this country from New Zealand late last week and is now settling in at her sister’s home in Michigan for her summer and fall visit. At some point she will be coming here. I look forward to what is becoming our annual visit. Maybe one of these winters, I’ll have to fly to New Zealand to visit her!
by Judy Handley | Jun 7, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 158: Countdown to Moving
Date: Wednesday, June 7, 2023
Weather: Partly Sunny AM, Cloudy PM: High 66, Low 50 degrees F
Location: At Home in the Cottage, East Falmouth, MA
It has finally dawned on me that I am actually moving … in three weeks. Yikes. Three weeks from today is June 28. I am supposed to be out of here by July 1. So the major moving day will be sometime between the 28th and the 1st. The complication is that Lynda is moving out of house next week. The house will then be empty and contractors are coming in to replace flooring in the bedroom, kitchen, and dining room and are sanding and refinishing the wood floor in the living room. The question in my mind is whether that can be done in two weeks. Lynda has been promised that it will be done but promises from contractors can be broken. We shall see. On this end, I need to figure out what I can pack now and still have everything I need to live for the next three weeks. I seem to be having difficulty figuring that out, but tomorrow, I am going to start the process and just see how it goes.
One of my major problems is that I have to split my time devoted to moving with other things. I am still spending a lot of time getting the new garden established. And I still have one boat project to finish. And Christina Brodie and I are gearing up to take over the leadership of Encore. I split my day today between cleaning house and working in the garden at the new house. I am devoting all of tomorrow to moving projects. I’ll have a better idea at the end of tomorrow of just how much I truly have to do. Here’s hoping it goes smoothly and faster than anticipated. I’ll fill you in tomorrow night.
I have written in other logs that we were Orsi’s home stay family when she was at St. Paul’s School.
I last saw Orsi five years ago. But this is the first time her husband, George, and their twins, Lisa and Peter, have been to this country. The twins are 13 years old and are both tall like their mom and dad. We had a delightful visit and then I headed home and they headed to Acadia in Maine. From there, they will return to Boston and on to New York City before flying home. I find it totally unbelievable that it has been thirty years since Heather and Orsi were in high school together. The years pass so quickly.
