by Judy Handley | Aug 11, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 224: Star Wars Afternoon with Ollie
Date: Friday, August 11, 2023
Weather: Mostly Sunny; High 78, Low 68 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
I took advantage of having no kids again this morning by catching up on Encore work. I am responsible for writing the greeting from the co-presidents for the September newsletter, so I got a start on that. I also continued working on my new herb and flower garden. Then I got a text from Jonah saying he needed a ride to go meet a friend downtown. I delivered him but then went back and invited Ollie to come to my house for the afternoon. He is a little better and I wanted to get him out in the sunshine for a bit. Besides, I really didn’t want to leave him alone all afternoon. After lunch and an Oma required 30 minutes in the sunshine, we came inside to continue my Star Wars education. Ollie didn’t want to watch the 8th major movie. Instead, we watched four episodes of Boba Fett. Ollie pointed out that I had ‘met’ Boba Fett in a couple of the movies we watched. He is a human male crime lord and a former bounty hunter whose career spans decades from the fall of the Galactic Republic to the end of the rule of the Galactic Empire. I am learning.
by Judy Handley | Aug 10, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 223: A Traveler’s Guide to the End of the World
Date: Thursday, August 10, 2023
Weather: Partly Cloudy, Light Rain Late Day: High 76, Low 65 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
It was another day without Ollie and Jonah. Ollie’s cold is no better, so again Heather said the boys would be fine and that I should avoid contact. I did take lunch to Heather and the boys and busied myself here with designing and buying a few plants for a new flower and herb garden. Then at 5:15 pm, Christina Brodie picked me up and we went to a wine and cheese reception at Highfield Hall followed by an author talk. The speaker was David Gessner. He is a NYT best selling author, and his latest book is A Traveler’s Guide to the End of the World: Tales of Fire, Wind, and Water by David Gessner. The Highfield piece advertising the event said: “In A Traveler’s Guide to the End of the World, Gessner takes readers on an eye-opening tour of climate hotspots from the Gulf of Mexico to the burning American West to New York City to the fragile Outer Banks, where homes are being swallowed by the seas. He does so with his usual sense of humor, compassion, and a willingness to talk to anyone, providing an informative and sobering yet convivial guide for the age of fire, heat, wind, and water. Gesner approaches scientists and thinkers with a father’s question: What will the world be like in 2064, when his daughter Hadley is his age now? What is the future of weather? The future of heat, storms, and fire?” Gessner doesn’t like to use the word ‘hopeful’ when talking about climate devastation and the future.. He prefers to use the word ‘possibilities’. This prompted a very thoughtful discussion.
by Judy Handley | Aug 9, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 222: Encore Board Meeting and Ollie with a Summer Cold
Date: Wednesday, August 9, 2023
Weather: Mostly Sunny: High 82, Low 65 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
At 7 am the alarm went off and I woke with a start. In all of my preparation for today’s Encore Board meeting, I had totally forgotten to get the key from the library ahead of time to unlock the door. Our meeting starts at 9:30 am. The library opens at 10 am. What to do? I emailed the co-presidents from the past two years to see if this had ever happened to them. No, it had not. So I headed to the library at 8:15 searching for a solution. There were workman at the back of the library working on the roof. They had a door opened, so I entered. The library was totally quiet, no lights on. I thought if I walked upstairs, I might find a maintenance person or someone who could help me. I wandered through rows of books and came to the administrative offices. A light was one. I knocked on the glass door and a very surprised woman came to the door and said, “You are not supposed to be here.” I said, “I know that.” She was very surprised that the alarm system had not gone off and that the police were not on their way. I was shocked that my presence could cause such a stir. But long story short, she finally gave me the key I needed to the unlock the outside door and the meeting room. All was well. I hurried home to get my things and then headed to the meeting. Whew! What a way to start the day when you are in charge of a Board meeting for the first time in your life. I will never forget to pick up the key the day before again!
After the Board meeting, I was supposed to take Ollie and Jonah to the beach, but Heather had contacted me early to tell me Ollie has a terrible summer cold. He was fine yesterday. This really came out of nowhere. He is testing negative for Covid, so it looks like an old-fashioned summer cold. Hopefully he is better by tomorrow. I took advantage of the time by catching up on paperwork. No fun, but it felt good to get a few things done.
by Judy Handley | Aug 8, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 221: Afternoon at the Mall After the Big Storm
Date: Tuesday, August 8, 2023
Weather: Heavy Rain with Tornado Warning; High 77, Low 71 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
What a storm we had this morning! There was thunder and lightning, pouring rain, a break with no rain, and then more pouring rain and a tornado warning. I was taking Ollie and Jonah to the Hyannis Mall for the afternoon. Jonah was meeting friends he met at his ASLP camp earlier this summer and Ollie and I were just going to hang out. When there was a break in the storm, I should have left to go get them. I didn’t, however, and when it was time that I had to leave, it was raining bucket loads. I put on my rain jacket and headed to the car to be met with a yard and a driveway with at least an inch of rain running across it. By the time I got to the car, I was soaked, but I was certainly not going to go back to change clothes. So, on I went. When I got to Heather and Jed’s, I called their home phone in the hope that one of the boys would pick it up. Ollie did and I told him there was no way I was fording the stream in their yard to come in and get them. I said that he and Jonah were just going to have to put on raincoats with a poncho over that if they could find one, take off their socks and shoes, and run to the car. They did that and still they got a bit wet., but on we went. It was slow going with traffic having to drive through deep water in some places. The water was so deep, we were making waves. And then Jonah got a message from one friend who was traveling to Hyannis from Nantucket on the ferry. The ferry had landed but they would not let anyone off the boat because there was a tornado warning. Whoa! We were halfway between Falmouth and Hyannis, and I just did not know what the responsible thing to do might be. So, once again, we traveled on, listening to the radio hoping we might get warnings, and constantly watching the sky. I told the boys that once we were in the mall we should identify where the restrooms were as they might be the safest places to be if a tornado hit. They have no windows. Jonah was going to a movie and a theater also seemed a safe bet. Still, I was a nervous Oma.
By the time we finally got to Hyannis, the storm was beginning to clear, and I hoped the tornado had passed us by. We went into the mall to wait for Jonah’s friends. Once he met up with them and headed to the theater to see Barbie, Ollie and I had a Thai lunch in the Food Court and then drove to downtown Hyannis to Mass Bay Company. This an upscale Army surplus store that Ollie wanted to visit. We went on to hobby shop to look at remote control vehicles, and then back to the mall. We looked at Legos at Target and then went to an arcade in the mall where Ollie spent more than hour playing arcade games. He loved it. AT 5 pm, we met up with Jonah and I drove home in the sunshine with two happy boys. Malls are not my favorite place, but it was not a bad way to spend a rainy summer day on Cape Cod.
And speaking of Cape Cod, Karen Baranowski forwarded a photo of Cape Cod taken from above. It was so dramatic, showing just how small and fragile our little niche in the world is . . . quite a jarring perspective.
by Judy Handley | Aug 7, 2023 | 2023 Life Logs |
2023 Life Logs, Day 220: Car Issues, Pain Management, DQ, and Candlestick Bowling
Date: Monday, August 7, 2023
Weather: Mostly Cloudy with Sprinkles; High 74, Low 71 degrees F
Location: At Home on Lakeview Avenue, Falmouth, MA
A good deal of my morning was spent dealing with my car issues. I took the car in early to a third garage and was told it could be two weeks before they can get to my car. That seems like forever, but other alternatives are about the same. So, Heather met me at the garage. We left my car, and I took her to work so I could use her Honda Civic today as I had a 2:15 doctor appointment and had to have a car. We discussed the possibility of renting a car for me for the rest of this week as our schedules show we need
three cars. I came home and was getting ready to call Enterprise to see what they might have available when I got a text from Jane Woodin. She is in Florida dealing with a dire family health issue, but she had read my log and wanted to loan me one of her cars for this week. It was like she was reading my mind. I was so grateful, and I called Bruce as she said he was flying to Florida tomorrow and we would need to get the car to me before then. I now have their red Toyota Rav and Heather and Jed have their red Honda Civic back. All is well due to the generosity of wonderful friends. Thank you, thank you, to Bruce and Jane.
I checked in with Ollie and Jonah. They were enjoying a day just veggie out at home. I told them I would return after my doctor appointment, and we would find something fun to do. The doctor appointment was with the pain management specialist that deals with back pain. He agreed that I need another epidural steroid injection and that was scheduled for next Tuesday. Then I headed back to the Goldstones. I suggested we go to Dairy Queen for a treat and then go downtown for candlestick bowling. We did both plus a visit to a downtown park where Jonah did his best to try to go swimming. He was walking on a floating piece of Styrofoam out on the water.
Miraculously, he did not fall in and we went on to bowling. Jonah killed Ollie and I score wise, but we all had fun. I laughed out loud when I saw the photos Ollie took of Jonah and bowling–his form versus mine.
You could readily see why he won.
And then there was the photo I took of Ollie enjoying the curly fries.
A good deal of my morning was spent dealing with my car issues. I took the car in early to a third garage and was told it could be two weeks before they can get to my car. That seems like forever, but other alternatives are about the same. So, Heather met me at the garage. We left my car, and I took her to work so I could use her Honda Civic today as I had a 2:15 doctor appointment and had to have a car. We discussed the possibility of renting a car for me for the rest of the this week as our schedules show we need
